amythan Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 Hi - I never know how to deal with this kind of situations. I do not want to come as desperate or pushy and in any other situation I would have any problem giving the person a call but not here ... We were friends but we become closer last February, we talked non-stop, we went out many times, had sex and it is clear that chemistry is amazing. He told me that he likes me, feels extremely attracted to me and found me very sexy. But we are also friends. I mean it, we care about each other and we have a blast together but the sex bit makes things complicated.We discussed last time we saw each other (we do not live in the same city) and for many reasons we do not want a serious relationship. It was good to talk just to see where we stand - I am fine with the situation and now I know I should not invest myself too much as this is going nowhere. So I sent him an email asking about his plans as I also need to organize my things but he never replied. He is now very busy and going through a very stressful period but still. If it was another friend I would just ask explaining that I really need to know and giving them some options but with him .. I just do not know what to do. If he is trying to avoid me I do not want to appear as desperate. Also he can feel too much pressure if I insist but ... it was his idea and anyway even if he changed his mind a two line email saying that it does not take that much time. Especially when he is the one always saying how our friendship is important to him .. Am I overreacting ? Should I contact him again ? Agghh I never know what to do .... Thank you !!
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