Linda1984 Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 I am at my wits end, I dont know whats wrong with me. I was in a 2 year relationship, when things started going badly my ex boyfriend broke up with me, I moved out and I started visiting this guy that I knew from when I was at school. He has been seperated for 1 year, he is still young, 27, and his divorce matter is coming up on the 28th July. I went out with him one night, we weren't expecting anything to happen but it did, it was only a week after my break up. We started seeing eachother and things were going really great, we could just not get enough of eachother, I saw him everyday, it was that really amazing kind of feeling. We didn't want to be apart. Everything was different with him, he seemed so sincere, and he made me feel really good we connected in a different way. Suddenly 3 weeks later out of the blue he tells me that because of his divorce, he is not feeling to great about things and he just is not ready to be with me. I just cant stop thinking about this guy, I really miss what we had and I feel like there's something wrong with me because its harder for me to get over this than my 2 year relationship. Does anyone have some advice, I feel like I'm going crazy...I wait for a call or text or email or fb message everyday, hoping for him to change his mind!!
Untouchable_Fire Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 I just cant stop thinking about this guy, I really miss what we had and I feel like there's something wrong with me because its harder for me to get over this than my 2 year relationship. Does anyone have some advice, I feel like I'm going crazy...I wait for a call or text or email or fb message everyday, hoping for him to change his mind!! How long has it been? I would not wait per/se, but if it hasn't been long, I just would not do anything physical with other guys yet. It takes time for guys to sort themselves out after a divorce.
Author Linda1984 Posted July 21, 2010 Author Posted July 21, 2010 Its been just over a week that he ended it. I know it must sound crazy but I feel like I'm obsessing over this...I don't know how to stop myself from thinking about him.
Untouchable_Fire Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Its been just over a week that he ended it. I know it must sound crazy but I feel like I'm obsessing over this...I don't know how to stop myself from thinking about him. 1 week? Feel free to obsess a bit. The guy still might call you anytime.
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