Cappedomnivore Posted July 19, 2010 Posted July 19, 2010 So you can read my back story here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t238263/. My question is if I'm making the right call. Through my life I've basically heard 2 sayings."If you love something let it go......" we all know that one. But I've also been told that love is worth fighting for. So you guys tell me, from personal experiences or just what you think, what is my best coarse of action?
qinboxmail Posted July 19, 2010 Posted July 19, 2010 So you can read my back story here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t238263/. My question is if I'm making the right call. Through my life I've basically heard 2 sayings."If you love something let it go......" we all know that one. But I've also been told that love is worth fighting for. So you guys tell me, from personal experiences or just what you think, what is my best coarse of action? Try your best. If failed then it's over.
cavedweller Posted July 19, 2010 Posted July 19, 2010 Capp, I dated my 'soul mate' for over four years (I say soul mate, because, I never loved anyone the way I loved her)...Then one day she dumps me for another man...I took it hard..Real hard.. The only thing I can say to you is: When it is over it is over... You need to realize that she is gone....(Pal, she ain't coming back)
Author Cappedomnivore Posted July 19, 2010 Author Posted July 19, 2010 But how can i believe that Cavedweller? I mean I know right now she's not mine but there's so many success stories I know of in my personal life and that I've read on this site and others, that i just can't believe its ever really over. I could understand if we had an ugly break up and fought a lot but we didn't. It was quite civil. And I know if i wanted to I could call or text her any time and she would be there.
ar1 Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 This will probably be one of my last posts on this forum, after figuring out my own personal situation. So here's my advice to you, cappedomnivore, and whoever else is reading. Many posters and even IRL friends, while altruistic, seem to give poor advice; most people will give you general advice or advice based on their own previous experiences. The major flaw in this, as seen in this thread (no offense to anyone), someone else's experiences will never line up exactly with yours. The bottom line is that there are only two people in this world who really have an understanding of the big picture here. Don't get me wrong though, there are some good rules to follow, such as not making emotionally charged decisions (e.g. calling her 20 times a day). However, just because someone else's situation ended one way does not mean yours will. That's my major gripe with these boards, it seems to be a case of the blind leading the blind (not saying I have the answers, just pointing out an observation).
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