Versa Posted July 19, 2010 Posted July 19, 2010 Hi there everyone, as the title said I've recently started a new relationship but once again don't know what to do. So I met her through my best friend's gf and I had just broken up with my ex. The first night we met, I wasn't that into her but she asked for my number and I gave it to her. Then I found out through my best friend that she really likes me so I thought why not I am single right. Then we had a group date. The night ended with a kiss. I asked her out for the first time couple days after and guess what, we had SEX on the first date!!! I was really surprised and I didn't think she was that kind of girl but it happened. After that we've been hanging out a lot like almost every other day. We talked about being in a relationship and all that stuff. She understand that I just got out of one and she told me she wasn't looking for one anyways so she would like to take things slow. Now what gets me confused is counting the first date to today, it would make it 3 weeks. During these 3 weeks we had sex 5 times and she's always holding my hands, kisses me here and there, just pretty much like my gf, yet whenever I try to bring up my feelings she would immediately change the subject. After a while I kinda feel like I am paying for a hook up that would last more than a day. I do pay for all the expanses when we are out, I also drive her everywhere since she doesn't drive. Now I finally had time to sit down and think about this which is why I decided not to see her for a week and see how she react next time I see her. So what do you guys think of this situation?
Feelin Frisky Posted July 19, 2010 Posted July 19, 2010 Congrats on the new relationship. Don't eff it up by being contentious.
Author Versa Posted July 19, 2010 Author Posted July 19, 2010 thanks, I am just affaird that she's going to get tired of me soon as I don't feel any sort of wanting to really be together from her. And if so do you think maybe I shouldn't put too much feelings into her trying to look for a relationship.
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