NGC1300 Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 For the past 6 months now, this really attractive older women at work has been trying to talk to me and seems to always be looking at me. Normally, the rest is history, but then again I'm not a normal person. The problem is, I pretty much blew her off, and don't know what I should do now. It's not that I didn't want to talk to her, it's just that I get so damn anxious and nervous when a women like that even acknowledges me. I can't imagine what she must think of me, but I know it's not good. So how can I go about trying this again without coming off even more pathetic? If I just walk up and talk to her it's going to be completely strange as she knows by now that's not how I operate. Basically, I don't know how to "break the ice" even though it was kinda-sorta already broken but I was too overcome with fear to act accordingly. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
redmelon Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 send her flowers at work with a card that says "please forgive my rudeness the other day - you are beautiful and it makes me nervous!" that would be awesome, but only if you are SURE she's into you. (Otherwise, you'll look psycho). It will make her have to come talk to you, and then you can force yourself to ask her out.
Author NGC1300 Posted July 14, 2010 Author Posted July 14, 2010 send her flowers at work with a card that says "please forgive my rudeness the other day - you are beautiful and it makes me nervous!" that would be awesome, but only if you are SURE she's into you. (Otherwise, you'll look psycho). It will make her have to come talk to you, and then you can force yourself to ask her out. Haha, yeah, that might be a tad on the psycho side. Fact is I don't know the women at all and have never really had any in-depth conversation with her.
Author NGC1300 Posted July 14, 2010 Author Posted July 14, 2010 Define "trying to talk to you" . Just small talk, but it got my attention because for the past 2 years prior she hadn't said anything to me. Of course, one day she made a very sexually suggestive comment, and I e-mailed her asking if she was serious. Probably a very psycho thing to do as she never gave me her e-mail address but I had it because it was attached to an e-mail from another employee. Well, she denied even making the comment, and yet STILL made attempts to get my attention. Maybe she's just playing with me??? Still, I wish I had had the balls to talk to her and found out.
alphamale Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 Any advice would be greatly appreciated. you obviously have limited experience with chicks. you should send her an email and ask her out for drinks after work sometime. tell her you were dating someone and just broke up a month ago. do whatever it takes, lie if you have to
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