Choboto Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 so bout year ago i started talkin to a girl in a class and she kinda started blowing me off and ignoring me after bout 2 months of talking(id start all convos or hanging outs, but she would NEVER contact me so i took that as a **** off signal).i said **** it and went on with life not talkin to her for 6-7months. But everytime i see her around campus she gets all ****in excited to see me and stuff, but i just ignore her figuring shes playin games.Tonight i went to workout and played a game of warball against the incoming freshman at my college(10 games us, 1 game them...dern freshman are so cute trying so hard to win lol). anyway so i walk into the warball room and see that this girl is a official for the game. she, like usual, yells HI *name* across the room. i wave and go about being pissed as yell that she would even try talkin to me after that whole time. SO the first game started and being pissed nailed a freshman in the face from about 2 feet away, laying him flat on his back. it helped me get out the frustration but kinda felt bad for the kid. now i dont know why this is happening to me, a girl has never made me so frustrated to see. girls have done worse to me and i still talk to them without frustration. how do you guys get over girls blowing you off that, by Murpheys Law, keep showing up all over the place? Im gonn play again at the next few freshman orientations but need help copin with this so i dont nail another kid out of frustration.
paddington bear Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 She didn't want you, so you walked away. Now only because she can't have you, she wants you to want her, so she's desperately trying to get your attention. If you now decided to give it a shot, she'd likely lose interest soon enough because she only wants the thrill of the chase, the one she can't have. Keep well away from her is what I would advise. As to why you are feeling so frustrated...maybe deep inside you are really attracted to this girl, maybe her initial rejection upset you more than you care to admit and now the person who made you feel like that is shoving herself into your face over and over, reminding you subconciously of that rejection. Go and find a girl who would be delighted to get your attention from the offset and parade her around on your arm in front of this girl. That should stop this behaviour.
Author Choboto Posted June 9, 2010 Author Posted June 9, 2010 ya, dunno just felt like typin it out for some reason. But today(the day after this happened) i met two girls, talked with em for awhile and they invited me to come stay in Miami with em this summer. pretty excited bout that, so that severely helped the situation. dunno why this girl is upsetting me so much tho. shes not the prettiest girl ive ever met, nor is her personality the greatest, for some reason i just severely liked her and cant find out why.
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