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on turning an affair into a lasting relationship?


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You mean she's being beaten up by him now?

 

Geez...

 

dont know about on a continual basis, but he did give her a black eye. and the reason he did it through the grapvine is.........he doesn't trust her because she cheated on me:confused: can you believe it? that coming from the OM.

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dont know about on a continual basis, but he did give her a black eye. and the reason he did it through the grapvine is.........he doesn't trust her because she cheated on me:confused: can you believe it? that coming from the OM.

 

I don't approve of violence, but I guess she got what she deserved. She must be completely ****ed in the head by now.

 

A woman who is brutalized by a man and accepts to be with him must have serious issues. Very serious.

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Well, I can say I hope it works out for you.

In my situation? I'm not sure. Most days a good - some days bad.

A's have many more moving parts than a regular relationship. If you are going to try to make it work, talk a lot ahead of time. Talk about what will happen. Are you guys prepared for that??

I thought I was - he's not.

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Odds are they cheat with you they will cheat on you. Time repeatedly proves this.

 

You brought a third person into your marriage. OW is allowed to make love deposits and your BW is not. You will never regain your feelings for your BW while you include the OW in your life.

 

There must be NC with the OW for life.

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