Twenty-ten Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 All men deeply desire to touch another woman. ( All women do too with regards to touching other men. We just have more will power and we don't use excuses like girls will be girls to justify a weak character. You see we can have men sexually if we want to and that is the only reason why it is not as strong a focal point for us, it is not because we are wired differently it is because it is so readily available for women it loses its appeal. But from time to time we do tap into our power, we just chose to leave it dormant. Link to post Share on other sites
calizaggy Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Ok so famous world leaders, pro athletes, rock stars, movie stars have "low self esteem" so they cheat.. Yeah, as we all know women love those men with low self esteem.. Ok, whatever makes you feel better.. Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Didn't you marry a man like the above? I thought you were divorced because you were cheated on? You must be another one of those females that according to you "married one of the few men that would cheat".. Or you drove him to it..Why was your "cheating radar" so low?Yes, I married and divorced a man with NPD. I fully accept responsibility for falling for someone who lacked the integrity, that he purported to. Now it's time for you to fully accept responsibility for hating men. I have no idea why you hate all men. All men deeply desire to touch another woman. (Including your hubby TBF) If they have the opportunity in the right situation is a different story.. Not once did I say that men don't think sexual thoughts. But I do most vehemently believe and know, that not all men will put this into action. Men are great... If they cheat I am not vieiwing them in a negative light at all..Boys will be boys. Even OJ had a flock of hot women trying to date him.. Bill Clinton was the most fantasized male,.Why do women love the cheaters?You claim you view men in a positive light but you don't address the issue that cheating is all about lying and deceit. Are you saying that lying and deceitful behaviour are okay and natural to men? Link to post Share on other sites
sweetjasmine Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Ok, whatever makes you feel better.. Says the person justifying cheating, lying and lack of integrity by blaming genetics. How ironic. Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Ok so famous world leaders, pro athletes, rock stars, movie stars have "low self esteem" so they cheat.. Yeah, as we all know women love those men with low self esteem.. Ok, whatever makes you feel better..All the above draw narcissistic personality types. And yes, narcissists have extremely low self-esteem, which is what causes them to NEED external narcissistic supplies, hence the vampiric effect of sucking in massive amounts of adoration. Link to post Share on other sites
Twenty-ten Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Ok so famous world leaders, pro athletes, rock stars, movie stars have "low self esteem" so they cheat.. Yeah, as we all know women love those men with low self esteem.. Ok, whatever makes you feel better.. Ahh yeah! What a stupid question. Of all the powerful famous people who led their careers to the toilet due to addictions do you think that is from having healthy self esteem? Did Michael Jackson have healthy self esteem in your eyes, despite being the king of pop and being worth at one point, billions? Just because you are successful in a career or a sport or a talent it doesn't mean you don't have low self esteem. What silly notion, to automatically equate financial success and fame to healthy self-esteem. Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Not once did I say that men don't think sexual thoughts. But I do most vehemently believe and know, that not all men will put this into action. I agree. I know that in a million years my boyfriend would never cheat on me. Doesn't matter the context. With some men you just know. Link to post Share on other sites
Taramere Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Men are great... If they cheat I am not vieiwing them in a negative light at all..Boys will be boys. Even OJ had a flock of hot women trying to date him.. Bill Clinton was the most fantasized male,.Why do women love the cheaters? Okay. So let's say you're married. You're away on a business trip and she's feeling a bit lonely and neglected. She calls up a friend of yours to say that something's wrong with the pool filter. She doesn't want to bother him, but if he's got the time.....? He comes round. Your wife is dressed in a clingy number. She offers him a drink after he fixes the pool. They chat. He knows your views about it being okay to cheat on women, so he's not going to feel too much guilt about screwing your wife. Your friend has cheated on you. Is that something you're prepared to accept as just being a natural urge on his part? Something that could perhaps have been avoided if you'd just been a better friend? Been there for him a bit more, instead of spending so much time focusing on work related matters? You don't view men who cheat in a negative light, after all... Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Calizaggy, there are men out there who would actually prefer to be with one woman that they love for the rest of their lives, and not just because their wife wouldn't put up with anything else. They actually want that. Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Bullock didn't deserve to be cheated, on but I don't understand how anyone could think she had no clue what she was getting into. Just a quick read through his wikipedia reveals that he was once married to a pornstar/convict. Also he comes off as skeevy as hell. Link to post Share on other sites
calizaggy Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Calizaggy, there are men out there who would actually prefer to be with one woman that they love for the rest of their lives, and not just because their wife wouldn't put up with anything else. They actually want that. Yes, they say this, and many actually think it as well..All I am saying is in the right situation all men will cheat.. I know this ruins many women's dreams.. "I want that rich powerful Alpha male who has integrity so he will not cheat".. As though the amount of options available is absolutely no part of the equation. This is once again WOMEN, yes WOMEN refusing to be held accountable for their choices. When women seek a mate these days, if he is the right height, and makes the right income they are then fixated on that man.. Traits like his character are overlooked. Then they cry about being cheated on.. Taramere, if I am on a business trip, none of my buddies will be coming over to see my wife.. Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 All I am saying is in the right situation all men will cheat..Unless you can mind read, you cannot say that all men will do anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Taramere Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Taramere, if I am on a business trip, none of my buddies will be coming over to see my wife.. Well, if you're not married and/or you don't have any buddies then that's probably a safe statement to make. However, if you were married...what would stop any buddies of yours paying your wife a visit if she invited them over? Would you have some onsite security system to prevent it from happening...or would you simply be relying on faith that a friend of yours wouldn't do the dirty on you? Link to post Share on other sites
sweetjasmine Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 This is once again WOMEN, yes WOMEN refusing to be held accountable for their choices. All men are helpless pigs who can't help but cheat on women. It's WOMEN'S fault that men cheat even though men are genetically programmed to cheat and all men will eventually do it. This makes perfect sense. Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Well, if you're not married and/or you don't have any buddies then that's probably a safe statement to make. However, if you were married...what would stop any buddies of yours paying your wife a visit if she invited them over? Would you have some onsite security system to prevent it from happening...or would you simply be relying on faith that a friend of yours wouldn't do the dirty on you?Since calizaggy lives outside of Brazil, where his girlfriend lives, who knows which of the "all" men, are currently cheating with her. Technically, he's currently away and for certain, if she has options, there will be many lying and deceitful men around, to do the deed, potentially copious amounts of time. Link to post Share on other sites
calizaggy Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Well, if you're not married and/or you don't have any buddies then that's probably a safe statement to make. However, if you were married...what would stop any buddies of yours paying your wife a visit if she invited them over? Would you have some onsite security system to prevent it from happening...or would you simply be relying on faith that a friend of yours wouldn't do the dirty on you? It would not be appropriate for men and women to be together in each other's home(alone) without their spouses..My wife would know better than to allow that to happen since she has common sense and knows how men are,, Apparently many women's emotions and idealism block their ability to have common sense. Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 It would not be appropriate for men and women to be together in each other's home(alone) without their spouses..My wife would know better than to allow that to happen since she has common sense and knows how men are,, Apparently many women's emotions and idealism block their ability to have common sense.I see. So you're saying that you can also mind read women, that any wife of yours has integrity. How do you know this beyond being a mind reader? How do you know that some opportune man (which would be all men) who's capable of being a liar and deceitful, who she trusted, wouldn't be able to seduce her, given enough opportunities? Link to post Share on other sites
calizaggy Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 I am speaking of men cheating.. How did this get twisted to men sleeping with their friends wives? I said married men are as faithful as their options.. So if women marry the man with many options, and in a field that is conducive to being around these women, the chances he will cheat will be much greater..That is called reality..If you live in a fairy tale then I could see why this is disheartening.. Link to post Share on other sites
Twenty-ten Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Yes, they say this, and many actually think it as well..All I am saying is in the right situation all men will cheat.. I know this ruins many women's dreams.. "I want that rich powerful Alpha male who has integrity so he will not cheat".. As though the amount of options available is absolutely no part of the equation. This is once again WOMEN, yes WOMEN refusing to be held accountable for their choices. When women seek a mate these days, if he is the right height, and makes the right income they are then fixated on that man.. Traits like his character are overlooked. Then they cry about being cheated on.. Taramere, if I am on a business trip, none of my buddies will be coming over to see my wife.. You are so all over the place it's hard not to laugh at the things you say. First you say all men cheat given circumstance, then you blame women for their poor choices on men who are more "proned" to cheat. So which is it then if all men cheat what difference does it make how women choose their mates? Even though all men cheat, it's still the woman's fault. Dude you just want excuses for your piss poor decisions. We are women, not blind. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetjasmine Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 It would not be appropriate for men and women to be together in each other's home(alone) without their spouses. It would not be appropriate for men to cheat on their partners. Apparently your emotions and idealism block your ability to have common sense. Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 I am speaking of men cheating.. How did this get twisted to men sleeping with their friends wives? I said married men are as faithful as their options.. So if women marry the man with many options, and in a field that is conducive to being around these women, the chances he will cheat will be much greater..That is called reality..If you live in a fairy tale then I could see why this is disheartening..Because if all men cheat, then all your friends or men who live close to your girlfriend/wife, WILL cheat with her, if she's in the least bit attractive. This is logical progression, especially since you're not with your girlfriend, since she lives in Brazil. Link to post Share on other sites
calizaggy Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Because if all men cheat, then all your friends or men who live close to your girlfriend/wife, WILL cheat with her, if she's in the least bit attractive. This is logical progression, especially since you're not with your girlfriend, since she lives in Brazil. Huh? But of course, I have no doubt men would be trying to sleep with her knowing she is in a relationship.. Since she is a magazine and TV model I am sure most men would want to sleep with her.. Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Huh? But of course, I have no doubt men would be trying to sleep with her knowing she is in a relationship.. Since she is a magazine and TV model I am sure most men would want to sleep with her..So you can mind read and KNOW that your girlfriend wouldn't sleep around with ALL those men who can and will cheat? Link to post Share on other sites
sweetjasmine Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Because if all men cheat, then all your friends or men who live close to your girlfriend/wife, WILL cheat with her, if she's in the least bit attractive. This is logical progression, especially since you're not with your girlfriend, since she lives in Brazil. Heh. Not to mention, in Brazil it's much more culturally acceptable for men to cheat. Link to post Share on other sites
Twenty-ten Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Pahahahaha your girlfriend is Brazilian calizaggy? Good luck with that! :lmao::lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
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