Chi NZ Posted March 7, 2010 Posted March 7, 2010 My initial story is here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t217885/ Now 3 months on, I feel amazing, have become 'right' with myself, have sorted through my past family issues and also dug deep and recognised where I went wrong with the relationship. Now this may seem like a short amount of time but when you get a right royal kick up the arse (which was needed) from the breakup then motivation takes over. What I'm wondering is, as the dumpee, is it too soon to ask to speak to my ex about the things that happened/perhaps take a look at reconciliation (Take things slow and by the numbers) If she is open to the fact the final piece of the puzzle that were our issues would finally fall into place. We have been NC for 3 months. I do have another counselling session on Wednesday and I will be asking the same question. I would appreciate the thoughts of you knowledgable others among you. Cheers
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