Crazy Magnet Posted February 18, 2010 Share Posted February 18, 2010 Lucky for me my BF thinks I look even hotter in glasses! Link to post Share on other sites
soulm8 Posted February 18, 2010 Share Posted February 18, 2010 I've always found that many men find women in glasses to be quite sexy. There's that whole librarian, intellectual look that seems to turn 'em on! Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted February 18, 2010 Share Posted February 18, 2010 So, I admit...I am in the minority of posters here...or of those that dare post. Honestly, it would not be a reason NOT to date a woman, but I do not find glasses as a whole "sexy." Granted, some women do look good in glasses, but they usually look better without them...IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted February 18, 2010 Share Posted February 18, 2010 I agree with James... I prefer NO glasses.. that's why I had laser surgery 12 years ago.. when I could no longer wear lenses... Link to post Share on other sites
Twenty-ten Posted February 18, 2010 Share Posted February 18, 2010 I think the reason we have those associations is because the people wearing glasses probably went blind reading all the time and doing other important brainiac work. Hahaha you are probably right! Silly fools that we are....because kids get glasses too... Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 18, 2010 Share Posted February 18, 2010 The thing is, I can get by without wearing glasses all the time. I am just wondering if this is a big deal to men in late 20's and 30's. you should get fitted for some contacts SaCWA....you can wear them when you go out on the town or other social functions. actually over time you'll probably prefer wearing the contacts and switch over to them permanently. Link to post Share on other sites
Stung Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 I wear my glasses a lot more now than I used to because my husband finds girls in glasses hot as hell. He's got a bit of a thing for the sexy librarian look. When I was dating, I sometimes wore them, sometimes not, as my prescription is quite mild. I never noticed wearing them putting any guys off, in fact I was frequently complimented on them. Link to post Share on other sites
Stung Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Someone has to post the opposite. I prefer women without glasses. It is much easier to see the eyes. And for me, it is all about the eyes. I know that is a personal opinion, and maybe it is not even the majority opinion. My H is an eye guy too, and I think that's actually part of why he likes me in my glasses. For one thing, he does like the way the frames suit my face...and he is always offering to buy me new pairs, so I have more variety. Sometimes I think for him it's almost the equivalent of sexy lingerie . But also: when we start to kiss, and he reaches up and gently lifts the glasses off my face and sets them aside, for him there is something revelatory and sensual about that moment, looking me clearly in the eye, seeing my naked gaze, perhaps being the only man that day to do so. He'd probably love it if I wore my glasses all day every day, but I prefer not to; I like having a variety of looks. Clearly there are different takes . Link to post Share on other sites
BobSacamento Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 As long as they are trendy. I just got new glasses and I love them. However, I do wear contacts the majority of the time. Glasses on women do not make a difference to me as long as they are fashionable. I do think it's easier for women to pull them off than for men. Link to post Share on other sites
bac Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 I guess if you are a naturally confident person with high self-esteem, you can wear glasses and many other questionable things on. If you have doubts in yourself, the glasses will provoke your insecurity. So, if you are naturally insecure, you might get even more insecure with glasses on. It is more important for dating how you feel about yourself than how you look. Link to post Share on other sites
rina_r Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 I love glasses on my b/f! I think if you pick out the right shape/size, then you'll be ok. Link to post Share on other sites
meerkat stew Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 I like geeky type plain black plastic German or French style frames on lots of women as much as no glasses at all or contacts. Depends on the face. Link to post Share on other sites
cashew Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 So at 31, I have discovered that I am somewhat short sighted and need glasses. I got them today and I am completely amazed how beautiful and sharp everything looks. I thought it was normal for the world to be a bit blurry. My prescription is pretty mild at -1, but the difference is huge. Now I am worried that wearing glasses will turn men off. I think that my frames look pretty cool (Chanel no less) but still.... I remember when I was around 20 I thought that men with glasses are not as sexy. Nowdays, I do not care at all. The thing is, I can get by without wearing glasses all the time. I am just wondering if this is a big deal to men in late 20's and 30's. I think it depends on their "look." I had a pair that screamed "intellectual." They made me look way older. "Sexy" glasses exist. I just bought two pairs that flatter my facial features, skin tone, and eye color perfectly. Men approach more than they did when I wore my nearly invisible rimless frames. Link to post Share on other sites
Rulebreaker Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 Bumping this thread because the other day I walked out of my work building on the way to a party wearing my contacts and the female security guard flipped out and was like "oh my gosh is that who I think it is? I didn't recognize you!!!" Then the next day she told me I could be a supermodel. I still like wearing glasses most of the time though Link to post Share on other sites
Satisfaction Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 I love guys in glasses. I instantly think of Clark Kent Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Cupcakes Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 you should get fitted for some contacts SaCWA....you can wear them when you go out on the town or other social functions. actually over time you'll probably prefer wearing the contacts and switch over to them permanently. Nah, that's not worth the expense. When I wear my glasses, I get hit on even more. They are a fashion statement these days. You have hip Chanel frames, go out and show them off. Link to post Share on other sites
Jade 02 Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 I will take a NICE guy,tired of all these red neck drunk,druggys I always attract myself to. Glasses,bald,and all,just a nice plain guy is fine for me. no more settleing for less,and walking around with black eyes,i thought i deserved HA!!! Glasses are cool its who you are that makes you beautiful in,and out. Link to post Share on other sites
marsle85 Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 No way girly! I WISH I needed glasses! I think glasses are sexy! I don't mind them on guys either. If you're unhappy, you could always get contacts... Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 Glasses ( depending on the type and the frames) can actually make a person look sexier. I'm not one to complain about them since I do wear glasses, but I also wear contacts when I go out since they're less bothersome especially in less than agreeable weather. If a guy is so superficial as to say you don't look good you can imagine what else he isn't satisfied with. If you're confident in yourself in whatever ( just like a woman can be confident and still look gorgeous in a laid back T and jeans), you have absolutely nothing to worry about whether glasses are a turn off or not. Link to post Share on other sites
nddb Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 The hot librarian look is in. Link to post Share on other sites
nddb Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 The hot librarian look is in. White blouse with top buttons undone, dark skirt, heavy-than-usual lipstick, cute glasses...omfg. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted February 28, 2010 Share Posted February 28, 2010 Love glasses on certain people. Link to post Share on other sites
terra Posted March 1, 2010 Share Posted March 1, 2010 I love men in glasses, I find it such a turn on if a man is wearing great glasses. so hot Link to post Share on other sites
lordWilhelm Posted March 1, 2010 Share Posted March 1, 2010 My gf looks even sexier (if that was possible) with her glasses on... just make sure the glasses you choose complement your looks Link to post Share on other sites
Devil Dog Posted March 1, 2010 Share Posted March 1, 2010 I don't mind glasses at all, they can be pretty sexy. Link to post Share on other sites
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