SirTheeMan Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Background story: (BRIEF AS POSSIBLE) Little over a year ago I met a girl, needless to say we hit it off pretty fast. So obviously, nothing ever works out in your favor as I found out she had a boyfriend. After finding that out, I still continued to have feelings for her, but didn't act on them because she had a boyfriend. I hear the words everyone whoever has liked someone that she has feelings for me as well. We start hanging out, going to movies and shows but I always kept a limit on myself due to the BF factor. A few weeks later, her and the boyfriend break up and a month or so later we start to hit it off. At this point I felt that it was inevitable that we'd end up together. But what I hadn't counted on is that they went to the same school and hence saw each other 5x a week. Things at that point started to go south for me, there was a 2 week stalemate between us due to exams and you can all guess what happened in that 2 weeks? Yeah, they got together.... I still saw her, but we didn't talk at all after that, she sent me a "Dear John" letter and that closed that book on us. November of 09 comes and we start talking again, and I find out that her boyfriend had cheated on her and that they were done for good. At the time I didn't care because I no longer had intentions of getting back to where we were. But in starting in December we had started to call each other, go to the same parties and go out and "chill". It felt like someone had pressed a pause button on us before and has hit play again because I feel like we are just starting off where we left. Here we are today, and I really like this girl and from what I know, its mutual. We are set to "chill" after her exams are complete. But in my mind a big cation sign keeps flashing reminding me what she did to me the first time and its slowing down that pace. So before I write a complete essay of my life, what should I do? Am I right to feel about cautious the second time around? Should I just forget what happened the first time and focus on the present? Tell me what you think? Thanks for reading.
Satisfaction Posted January 20, 2010 Posted January 20, 2010 Yes you are right to feel cautious. You should ask her about it. Tell her how you feel. What have you been doing all this time between? not met any other girls?
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