d0ll Posted January 4, 2010 Posted January 4, 2010 he took my number & we started texting, but I havent been able to get in touch with him for almost two weeks, he seemed to like me & said he hopes we can talk more he hasn't replied to any of my texts & whenever I call it just rings & rings & goes to his VM .. think he's ignoring me or theres something wrong with his phone?
Author d0ll Posted January 4, 2010 Author Posted January 4, 2010 when I texted him from another number he didn't answer either (didn't know it was me)
Author d0ll Posted January 14, 2010 Author Posted January 14, 2010 actually just heard from him he said "Its complicated and I wish I could explain, it was nice to meet you and I wish things could have been different :/" idk wtf that means
allina Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 "Its complicated and I wish I could explain, it was nice to meet you and I wish things could have been different :/" idk wtf that means It means he's bailing on you and doesn't wish to hear from you again. Let it go, move on.
Author d0ll Posted January 14, 2010 Author Posted January 14, 2010 It means he's bailing on you and doesn't wish to hear from you again. Let it go, move on. what a sketch!
OnlyJake Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 actually just heard from him he said "Its complicated and I wish I could explain, it was nice to meet you and I wish things could have been different :/" idk wtf that means It means "You're ****ing out!"* *Quote courtesy Kenny Powers
Author d0ll Posted January 14, 2010 Author Posted January 14, 2010 it's so odd seeing as he's the one that took my number, talked to me for about a week & then drops off the planet .. we didn't even get to hang out or anything!
silic0ntoad Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Love is a battlefield. On his section you're a casualty. Move on.
Author d0ll Posted January 14, 2010 Author Posted January 14, 2010 yeah it just drives me nuts & why say "i wish things could have been different :/" & then text back an hour or two later "a thousand apologies"
allina Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 it's so odd seeing as he's the one that took my number, talked to me for about a week & then drops off the planet .. we didn't even get to hang out or anything! Don't waste anymore time thinking about it, it doesn't matter. There could be a million different reasons for his actions. Maybe an old fling came back in to the picture, maybe he met someone else. Who knows? But next time this happens, please please don't keep calling and texting! And never call/text from a different/blocked #! That just makes you look foolish and a little crazy.
silic0ntoad Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 Maybe he had a girlfriend? You'll never know. Either way, he's worthless. Move on.
boogieboy Posted January 14, 2010 Posted January 14, 2010 yeah it just drives me nuts & why say "i wish things could have been different :/" & then text back an hour or two later "a thousand apologies" Its because something didnt work out with the person he REALLY wanted to be with...you were a backup..he tool your number to fill the void. Then he worked it out with the other person. So he didnt need to contact you anymore, whats so hard to understand?
Author d0ll Posted January 14, 2010 Author Posted January 14, 2010 Its because something didnt work out with the person he REALLY wanted to be with...you were a backup..he tool your number to fill the void. Then he worked it out with the other person. So he didnt need to contact you anymore, whats so hard to understand? it's hard to understand how much people suck & why the same thing keeps happening to me over & over again
sagetalk Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 it's so odd seeing as he's the one that took my number, talked to me for about a week & then drops off the planet .. we didn't even get to hang out or anything! It's another girl I can almost guaranteed. Just move on, girls do this to guys too.
MyNameIsJonas Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 it's hard to understand how much people suck & why the same thing keeps happening to me over & over again You've just a hit a streak of bad finds. You do have the right idea about how it isn't your fault, because it isn't your fault at all. Every guy does not do this to girls he meets. Trust me, there are good guys out there, they are just a little harder to find. DBs are a dime a dozen.
Author d0ll Posted January 15, 2010 Author Posted January 15, 2010 thanks, i'm over it. he obviously has issues & is rude
tkgirl Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 thanks, i'm over it. he obviously has issues & is rude yea, let it go.. he obviously has something going on that has nothing to do with you... he's not worth even thinking about anymore.
txsilkysmoothe Posted January 15, 2010 Posted January 15, 2010 Consider it a learning experience. Quite often you can't explain another's behavior. File the little red flags and oddities away in the back of your mind so you can better identify these traits when a man displays them. Then you'll know not to get your hopes up until he proofs through consistent behavior that he is sincere.
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