EcstasyX6 Posted November 3, 2009 Posted November 3, 2009 This is the reverse question of an interesting thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=208164 that was started on the dating forum that I was curious about. Would you say that any of the following statements that were made is true for the OM? The following are posts that I edited from the link above: "... OW with cheating husbands/boyfriends. All of them shared several qualities: 1. The had all been f***ed over badly in previous relationships. 2. Attractive, but very insecure. 3. Repelled any and all 'normal' or healthy relationships. 4. Not only liked, but almost needed constant attention/validation from (women)men. 5. Pretended they were the ones using the men(women), instead of vice versa. 6. ALL of them, to a T, said 'I'm not the one cheating...' 7. Complete and total lack of compassion or respect for wife/gf(husband/bf). It's funny, any woman/man would die if her husband/his wife was cheating on her/him, but there are a small percent of women/men who seek to take away the attention of another woman's man/man's woman. There is some element of power/control in knowing your relationship is terminal, some drama in the danger, and some attention to be had from a guy/girl who wants you to keep quiet about the whole thing. Would you agree with this statement regarding OM? But I totally understand why some women/man would prefer to be "second" to a FIRST CLASS man/woman rather than "first to a "coach" man/woman.
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