phineas Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 I'm sort of a jack of all trades. I have power tools & know how to use them. when it comes to women that are "just friends" I treat them like one of my male buddies. If they need something done on their house/car ect & ask me I tell them I was going to (insert project on house here) that weekend but i'll do it if they come over & help me with my project. If they don't want to I quote them a price for me to do the work. Once they figure out i'm not going to be their trained helper monkey just because they are hot they usually stop asking me for favors. I've yet to have a woman agree to "hire" me for money. however i've had a few woman agree & then come over & kick-ass on my project. I actually wound up dateing a few of them so maybe they came over because they dug me. Which means it's a win/win situation. I get help on a project & maybe a GF. LOL!
boogieboy Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 I'm sort of a jack of all trades. I have power tools & know how to use them. when it comes to women that are "just friends" I treat them like one of my male buddies. If they need something done on their house/car ect & ask me I tell them I was going to (insert project on house here) that weekend but i'll do it if they come over & help me with my project. If they don't want to I quote them a price for me to do the work. Once they figure out i'm not going to be their trained helper monkey just because they are hot they usually stop asking me for favors. I've yet to have a woman agree to "hire" me for money. however i've had a few woman agree & then come over & kick-ass on my project. I actually wound up dateing a few of them so maybe they came over because they dug me. Which means it's a win/win situation. I get help on a project & maybe a GF. LOL! This is a good way to go, but I get the feeling from the OP's posts that he OFFERS his services before they even ask....shame.
Author 627 Posted October 29, 2009 Author Posted October 29, 2009 This is a good way to go, but I get the feeling from the OP's posts that he OFFERS his services before they even ask....shame. this OP learned a valuable lesson from you all thank you
phineas Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 This is a good way to go, but I get the feeling from the OP's posts that he OFFERS his services before they even ask....shame. I got that also. A lot of the women I know mention their "problem" over & over & over again & i KNOW they are waiting for me to offer my services & I just refuse to do it. When I was younger I offered & I wound up feeling used but since I offered to help..... however, a couple of times a woman has asked me to come over & fix something for her because she likes me & figures it's an easy way to get to spend some time with me & not have to worry about rejection. they also returned the favor by coming over & helping me which again goes back to my point of a win/win situation. LOL!
Vertex Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 (edited) I still say that it takes more faith to believe that no ONE had a hand in everything you see today. Sit on top of a Mountain during the Wintertime and you'll understand what I mean. It can be explained why everything is here the way it is without a helping hand from any sort of external being/force/"God"/etc, but that is for another thread/topic. Would love to debate it though in another thread if you're willing! As for the book, I admit I have still not read it. I've learned to be more confident, but I'm still interested in what that book has to say. Edited October 29, 2009 by Vertex
thegreatmoose Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 In short, it shows guys how to be calm, confident and self-assured MEN. Not boys. Not jerks. Not nice guys. The kind of men that women LOVE and ADMIRE Women can like many differfent types of guys. A large number of women like the kind of man you describe, but not every women prefers a calm man for example. Others are drawn to jerks and even nice guys.
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