rp123 Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 NC for 13 days today. Truly the hardest thing I've ever done. When will I start to feel some relief.......? Been so close to breaking NC, but just holding on......... Link to post Share on other sites
logitech Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 Stick with it!! I was on day 12 and allowed circumstances to unfold that broke it. Got me going backward. So yeah, stay strong!! Link to post Share on other sites
jv032889 Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 Good job! It's difficult but it's also worth it. My ex would call or initiate contact with me but after the first month of limited contact I started to feel better. Don't give up. The sun will shine brighter and you will be stronger:) Link to post Share on other sites
Leia Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 NC for 13 days today. Truly the hardest thing I've ever done. When will I start to feel some relief.......? Been so close to breaking NC, but just holding on......... [pats rp123 on the back] Link to post Share on other sites
rainbowsandkittens Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 i'm on day 3 so i'm super impressed with you! keep it up! Link to post Share on other sites
angelface78 Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 Good for you!!! i am on 3 months...it really is very difficult. When i started i never thought i would be where i am today. As time goes on there will be times when you will want to break it...but its not worth it, Most likely you will just end up getting hurt again and will have to start all over. I have almost broken NC 3 times...and the people here on LS have stopped me. It takes a long time to feel better. Im on 3 months and sometimes i feel like no time has passed!! That is sooo good that you are doing this for yourself though. NC is a powerful thing...it requires a lot of discipline. If you can do this you can do anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Maxwell Sage Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 This is day 13 for me as well. My ex has contacted me twice since I established NC and thinks poorly of me for doing so. Each time she's messaged me, I've experienced chest pains and a following day filled with intense emotions. This forum has helped me tremendously. Not only does it provide a means of venting, receiving advice and relating to others, it provides me with something to do through out the day. Stick around until you're indifferent. Link to post Share on other sites
Author rp123 Posted September 25, 2009 Author Share Posted September 25, 2009 I suppose my relationship is different (isn't everyones..) Our last conversation was on the phone, I had drunk a bottle of wine, and can't remember all that was said. Seems such a tragic way to end an 8 year relationship...... honestly, I'm devastated....... thanks for listening. Link to post Share on other sites
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