How do people always seem to find someone else after their relationship is over?

[Brady_to_Moss]

I just dont get it. My two roommates have had girls their whole lives. After one relationships is over..there is a new girl within 2 weeks..after 1 FWB is gone..another one comes along.

 

I cant even find 1 when they find that in their sleep. I dont get it.

 

Is it becasue they just dont have standards? Is their luck that much better than mine? What the hell is it!?

[EricaH329]

It's easy to find someone else after a relationship is over. Very easy. You can pick the first person that's attracted to you and get into a relationship with them. When I was young, that's how I did it.

 

But after all is said and done, they didn't mean anything. They were there to cure my loneliness. Think about it, how serious do your roommates get with these girls? Their relationship can't be based on a solid foundation.

 

Now that i'm a little older, it takes me awhile to get into any relationship with a guy. I most certainly won't start dating someone immediatly after I get out of a relationship.

 

IMO, their relationships with these girls are something to pass the time. They aren't looking for a serious relationship.

[JohnP82]

I know what you mean man. I got rejected twice last week. One of my roommates had a ONS and the other went on weekend trip with a chick that he just met. It does get a little disconcerting. I think it helps to care less.

[Brady_to_Moss]

It's easy to find someone else after a relationship is over. Very easy. You can pick the first person that's attracted to you and get into a relationship with them. When I was young, that's how I did it.

 

But after all is said and done, they didn't mean anything. They were there to cure my loneliness. Think about it, how serious do your roommates get with these girls? Their relationship can't be based on a solid foundation.

 

Now that i'm a little older, it takes me awhile to get into any relationship with a guy. I most certainly won't start dating someone immediatly after I get out of a relationship.

 

IMO, their relationships with these girls are something to pass the time. They aren't looking for a serious relationship.

 

 

It just seems like i am compatable with about 1 in every 100 girls i meet. With them it seems like 1 out of every 4 they would date or hook up with. Maybe they base it more on looks every i look for personalitly when they dont?

 

I would rather be by myself than to waste someones time knowing the relationship wont last.

[EricaH329]

I would rather be by myself than to waste someones time knowing the relationship wont last.

 

I agree with this 100%! But, not everyone feels that way. Some feel the need to be in a relationship, even if there isn't compatibility, just for the security.

 

I wouldn't compare yourself to them. You have different morals and standards than they do.

[lupa]

Well, I can tell you from very recent experience, where I was sure I would never meet anyone ever again, and there was nowhere for me to do it...

 

Go out.

 

See girl.

 

Talk to her.

 

You'll find that there are a lot of women out there that are attractive, nice, and have good personalities.

[Brady_to_Moss]

The thing is they dont know that many girls..they just come and ask them to hangout and such. I have yet to meet a girl to ask me anything in the lines of that. I know some girls do and its great and i think more girls should ask guys out. I know ladies are afraid of rejection but we have to do it so why not them? I just wish more girls would ask guys out becasue their would be a lot more happy people out there.

 

 

The only thing i feel i am missing out is in experiance. Yeah these relationships dont last long, but they are getting experiance in dating while i cant even find a girl i would consider to date. I will not lower my expectations becasue thats never a good thing to do. Thats just me!

[lupa]

The thing is they dont know that many girls..they just come and ask them to hangout and such. I have yet to meet a girl to ask me anything in the lines of that. I know some girls do and its great and i think more girls should ask guys out. I know ladies are afraid of rejection but we have to do it so why not them? I just wish more girls would ask guys out becasue their would be a lot more happy people out there.

 

 

The only thing i feel i am missing out is in experiance. Yeah these relationships dont last long, but they are getting experiance in dating while i cant even find a girl i would consider to date. I will not lower my expectations becasue thats never a good thing to do. Thats just me!

Let me rephrase then:

 

Go out.

 

See girl.

 

Talk to her.

 

 

I'm not kidding, brother, there are a lot of good girls out there who are shy and afraid of rejection. That is why they aren't coming up to you. Nobody is saying lower your standards...think about it...ther are like 3.25 billion women out there. There's gotta like 3 or 4 good ones right by you.

 

I know if feels scary...I was terrified that I would never meet anyone after my divorce process started...but i walked up to one and started talking.

 

The hardest step is the first one. And if she says no, just tell yourself she is in a bad mood because her dog just died or something, and go find another.

[Hkizzle]

I just dont get it. My two roommates have had girls their whole lives. After one relationships is over..there is a new girl within 2 weeks..after 1 FWB is gone..another one comes along.

 

I cant even find 1 when they find that in their sleep. I dont get it.

 

Is it becasue they just dont have standards? Is their luck that much better than mine? What the hell is it!?

 

It's not that hard to do if the person is flirting and actively looking.

 

But it's not ethical, it's highly unlikely they care about the new girl they are dating. They're just using the other person for companionship or a rebound.