Loxylox Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 Ok, I posted a thread a bit ago http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=2229822#post2229822 this is about the same guy. Ok, since last posting in the thread, we have still been hanging out together pretty much everyday, sometimes twice in a day. Anyways up to date, we had an argument last week, cause I thought he was kicking me, but anyways his ex came into the txt convo, and than he said yea, "I love my ex". Ok, so that plays a big part in what im confused about. So he's not with his ex, because shes in another relationship, & as far as I know, (nd I would have heard) he's not in a relationship either. Ok good, got all that. I know and from previous responders, he just wants to be friends right now with me. Ok so he was going into the court house today, and i foundthe letter he typed up to the judge last night when I was hanging out at his house while he was typing. I read it, than came to a part that said "I have my loving girlfriend who I completely adore but i feel I haven't been giving her my 100% love because of the shame and embarassment and emotional distress I have lived with knowing how worried and disappointed she is. I worry so much about her and am very disappointed in myself that I may not be there to comfort and protect her. There is nothing in the world that will ever make me feel this way again." Hmmm... he has a girlfriend? Or is he talking about his ex??? Like I would know if he had a gf... so It dosen't make any sence, and few hours later, everything went well in court, than we start txt'n, few convos in he says "Draw. Just Live Ur Life B Happy. U Got A Long Way Too Go Young One." Im sooo confused.... Help?
boogieboy Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 Theres nothing to be confused about, run for the hills before you become a rebound.
NotNow Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 I mostly skimmed your threads because they're a little difficult to read, but my impression is that you're just reading too much into the situation and the guy, and looking for someone to tell you that he's into you and wants to be with you. If he wanted to be with you, he would be. I think you should start looking elsewhere and stop focusing on this guy.
Albucosor Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 I understand you want to have a relationship, but obviously this guy doesn't want to be with you. Move on, find someone else
Author Loxylox Posted July 19, 2009 Author Posted July 19, 2009 the guy just told me he was tlking about me ... he told people I was his gf...... Now Im really confused!!
lora22 Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 Well if he told you he was talking about you, and that he said you were his gf...why are you confused? That sounds pretty straight forward to me.
Author Loxylox Posted July 19, 2009 Author Posted July 19, 2009 because he never actually said "yes, we're bf nd gf" all he said was... he told some people I was his gf, because I confronted him about the note I found, (read above).. and he said he was tlking about me in the note...... but we're not gf and bf... he said he wanted to be "friends"
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