rina_r Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 After losing a fight with my b/f's PTSD I left. My girlfriends decided to introduce me to a guy (i tried to meet with him before, didi not know he was a friend of a friend...). So we met. We had awesome 1st date, chemistry, etc. I was told he was great and polite and everything. He treats me really nice but I dont know, intuition was trying to tell me soemthing. I go on vacation, we talk on the phone while gone. We have 2nd date in his friends' company when I return. It is great too. Well, later we go to his place. Now...pardon all the details. Starting to have sex... I dont know what the heck happened,...he was doing smth with his condom then either lost it or what, than his Mr Big went down. I helped it orally. He came on me and crashed. And I am like - so what about me? Well, i am left unsatisfied. In the middle of the night he tries to have sex again, but again everything is one way. In the morning he gets up at 8am and leaves without leaving a note or anything at all. I remember he mentioned to his friends he wanted to play disc gold in the morning, but I thought he d cancel and stay with me. I get home. He never calls back. I call and confornt him, politely, in a nice way, without accusations etc. He does not even understands why i am upset. "I had too go play, i was late!" Well, i just bye in the end and hung up. You know, even when i was looking for 1 nite stand, my partners NEVER treated me like that! And this time i was not. And he knew that. I told my male friends - they were all shocked too. I am just speechless....What the f****? (gee, did not get even that!)
BCCA Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Did he just come and pass out? lol What a douche, I bet he was embarrased, but for gods sake, I would have at least taken care of you as well. Like I tell people all the time, though, if he cant get it going on your first time offering up some sex...not a good sign.
Author rina_r Posted May 19, 2009 Author Posted May 19, 2009 Thanks. I guess everyone is speechless too.
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