DanielG Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 Hi Guys, sorry for bothering with this stupid question, but i'd really like to have an honest opinion, my confidence is quite bad and it always ruins my relationships..specially at the begenning when they're stating to know me... thanks! http://img26.imageshack.us/img26/3299/nelf8btmp.jpg
LexiB Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 wha?? You're definitely *above* average looking imo. I'd give you about an 8 out of 10 for face and it seems like you have a pretty toned body on top of that so even better. have a bit more confidence!!
Citizen Erased Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 Terrible, truly. But I will take pity on you, I'm that nice. seriously though, you are a hottie! I was not expecting that...
paddington bear Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 Well above average. Dear God man why would you think otherwise! Give yourself a slap for being so silly
xpaperxcutx Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 Wow if you have low self-esteem, then I must be wishing I was someone else entirely.
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 Daniel, Daniel, Daniel - we've been here before. Why put yourself down when you are so hot, I'll never know. I think the deeper issue at hand is WHY are you so down on yourself? Who was it that first told you that you were no good? Who was the first person that sent you that message? Until you get at the issues deep under the surface, you will never be able to be happy with who you are. You will never get enough outside validation to fill your empty cup. Have you considered therapy? I'm serious, here. I think you really need to get down to the root of the problem. I can tell you - I've dealt with low self-esteem. And it DOES NOT MATTER how many people tell you how hot you are, you will never believe it. It has to come from YOU, first. You have to learn to love yourself. You're like a Ferrari trying to masquerade as a Yugo.
era Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 Hi DanielG... I just read your previous thread, where you asked the same question. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=183180 I can only give you a woman's POV - I think you look nice.
IcemanJB Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 Guy's perspective: you're not ugly. WTF man? You should be more worried about your confidence than what you look like. What you look like will not be what drives a woman away.
era Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 What you look like will not be what drives a woman away. ???..
IcemanJB Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 ???.. I should have clarified, *in his case*, since his self-esteem is low. The self-esteem will be his downfall, not his looks. Am I still not making sense? It's early...
Lizzie60 Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 Ouache... terrible.. hideous... Come on.. now.. methink you just want compliments.. Really... your lack of confidence is the turn-off.. or maybe your lack of intelligence.. it's hard to say... the intelligence.. there is not much you can do.. but your confidence you can work on..
era Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 I should have clarified, *in his case*, since his self-esteem is low. The self-esteem will be his downfall, not his looks. Am I still not making sense? It's early... I providing a link from his previous thread - read it
dreamergrl Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 I should have clarified, *in his case*, since his self-esteem is low. The self-esteem will be his downfall, not his looks. Am I still not making sense? It's early... I get it. OP has no reason to lack self confidence about his looks. But I don't think it's bad that he's not all "oh yeah, I'm hot and I know it" either. There is a fine line between having confidence and having a ego the size of China. OP you aren't bad looking. You need to figure out why you are lacking the self confidence. At what part does your relationships take a dive?
dreamergrl Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 I providing a link from his previous thread - read it Ooooh I remember this thread now that I started to read it. Okay, then maybe it's not a self confidence thing. Maybe it's more so an overwhelming urge for things to result the way OP wants it. OP is trying to hard.
IcemanJB Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 I providing a link from his previous thread - read it Got it. Didn't know the background on the guy.
LexiB Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 Side note: I think a more closely cropped haircut would better suit your face though. Just sayin...
sotired Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 Are you short? Because I think your face is fine. Looks a lot better than the average in my neck of the woods.
quankanne Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 you're a little cutie, and look like you'd be a nice enough fellow to get to know ...
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