The Studmuffin Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 Imagine if your BF or GF kissed somebody else... how would you feel?
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 why do I feel theres more to the Ops 1st post you kiss some one justme? lol @human..
Author justme2781 Posted April 25, 2009 Author Posted April 25, 2009 no just wondering, i guess its cheating but is it like bad cheating?? lol at what point do you break up with someone?
Author justme2781 Posted April 25, 2009 Author Posted April 25, 2009 it just came up because my former best friend cheated and i was wondering what people thought about kissing.
TaraMaiden Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 Anything you do to another person you would not like your partner to see or know about - is cheating. There is physical cheating - and I would give the opinion that kissing is a physical action - and there is emotional cheating. When you become so involved with another person, with no physical action, but you know that at the drop of a hat it would or might be possible to take it further. This is very dangerous....
Author justme2781 Posted April 25, 2009 Author Posted April 25, 2009 can some of you please say something about my other post!!
You'reasian Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 it just came up because my former best friend cheated and i was wondering what people thought about kissing. It could be interpreted as cheating, but it depends on what kind of relationship: I've had gf kiss another girl and she liked it lol - it was kind of amusing and I didn't take it as cheating. In a more serious relationship, it could be considered cheating.
samsungxoxo Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 If your partner doesn't consent to it but you do it anyways knowing you're gonna hurt them then yes it is cheating. Like another poster say anything you hide and have to lie about, not doing it in their face then it's cheating.
hurt4life Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 I believe Dr. Phil stated this...."If you do something that you would not do in front of your SO, then you are cheating".......I believe in this 100%
MichiganMan222 Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 I believe Dr. Phil stated this...."If you do something that you would not do in front of your SO, then you are cheating".......I believe in this 100% Great! Now I'm going to feel terribly guilty everytime I take a dump.
carhill Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 LOL @ the dump... I've kissed plenty of people, including other men, many in front of my wife, as well as in front of those people's SO's. It's about intent. Yes, there have been a few instances where the intent wasn't "pure", but what can I say, I'm human. I can say with good authority some of the intent on the other side wasn't so pure either If you're talking about swapping spit and doing origami with tongues, no, I haven't done that, and, yes, I'd call that something other than polite affection.
sotired Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Of course it is cheating..the only people that will disagree are the ones that get caught and try to downplay it. If my man even got close enough to another girl to kiss her he would be out the door.
endorphins Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 well you know, there are alot of different sorts of kissing... Some are innocent, some are nice, some are sexy, and some are disgustingly hot! You tell me what sort of kiss we are talking about here?
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 I don't think cheating can be qualified by levels. Cheating is cheating, period. My XH had cybersex and phone sex with other women. No person-to-person contact there, and I considered that an outright affair. I can tell you for a fact that if I kissed another guy, my BF would drop me in a hot second. I'd do the same because I cannot deal with cheating on any level ever again. It's disrespectful.
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 Great! Now I'm going to feel terribly guilty everytime I take a dump. :lmao: HAHAHAHAHA....OMFG...I seriously burst out laughing and coughing here at work.
carhill Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 You tell me what sort of kiss we are talking about here? Well, there is the otherwise innocent kiss goodnight/goodbye (SO's present) where I'm wondering what that wet thing pressing against my lips is.... women are devious, I tell ya
mr.dream merchant Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 What kind of kiss? If its mouth to mouth its the door with your triflin ass!
pinkiebrain Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 I've asked both men and women this question too many times to count.. and you might be surprised that both say kissing IS cheating and is perhaps worse than having sex with another person. Why and/or How? Well kissing tends to be much more intimate than sex. I mean you could have sex with a stranger on the street, hints the phrase 'one night stand'. But when you kiss someone, more often than not there's a connection there that's deeper than just physical pleasure. But you never know; sometimes kissing someone can be just as detached...
Mahatma Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 It always depends on understood rules of the relationship. In most relationships, yes kissing would be considered cheating. However, there exist relationships where they consider themselves "open" and even sex with others is allowed. It is all governed by the type of relationship you have and the person you are with. I would say most people innately know when they are cheating their partner and when they are not. If it is a gray area, it is probably cheating.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 I've kissed plenty of people, including other men, . carhill walks on the wild side ha go figure? So that cute lil avatar is just a cover lol..
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