Monty36 Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 sorry...its long short recap of my relationship with this girl: we've know each other since fourth grade, became best friends sophomore year in high school, during high school we both found out that we loved each other deeply, were on off throughout three years of being best friends, finally started dating senior year and were both deeply in love. She told me (even before we started dating) that she could see us being married, basically we both felt like we had found our soul mate. we dated for about five months then in the last two weeks of the relationship things got tense. she finally pulled the "i love you but i need space line". I took it hard the first day but decided to respect her wishes and give her space. we went NC for about a week then she began talking to me again and now were slowly fading back into the "friend zone", but with it is coming a number of mixed signals 1. She tells me that she still loves me but that for the rest of high school she "thinks" she wants to be single because its less stressful (exact words) 2. One day we'll hang out and she'll be very flirtatious while another time she acts like i don't even exist 3. She is still wearing the promise ring i gave her 4. she asked me why i dont ever text her as much anymore 5. we really only talk when she contacts me 6. Fro her birthday her family is taking her to Vegas and she told me she really wants me to come with her 7. She was out partying and was tipsy so she couldn't go home and asked if her and her friend could spend the night at my house because i was the only guy she could trust 8. shes out hanging out with other guys a lot now 9. she text me at for in the morning one night saying how thankful she was that i have always been there for her for the past three years 10. out of every relationship she's ever been in im the only ex she's ever had that she still talks to and is friends with basically im more confused than i've even been in my entire life. from one side she shows signs she wants to be with me and misses me, while on the other its like i'm just her friend again. Please any advice or insight would be very helpful.....
hopesndreams Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 8. shes out hanging out with other guys a lot now There's your answer. She's playing with your emotions and you are allowing it. You are giving her an ego feed. She can go to you whenever and treat you well or treat you not well and you just take whatever crumbs she feeds you. You should really move on and get to know other girls and leave this one to the "other guys".
bkaz01 Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 never do it read my last post its what happens it hurts so bad and now she runnin around ok and im left in the dust hirting...someone will get hurt in the end... i need some help as well folks please read its kinda the same situation except im on the other side i still dont feel better [COLOR=#660000][COLOR=#660000][COLOR=#660000]http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t183681/[/COLOR][/COLOR][/COLOR] [COLOR=#3b5998][/COLOR]
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