jadelil25 Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 I really would appreciate your help. Im really confused on what to do and would like your opinions. My boyfriend of 3 months and I have made plans for tonight. We are having a relaxing night in at his and made the plans on Monday. I messaged him today to see if he is still up for tonight and he has not got back to me. This is something that we do on a regular basis, so do you think it would be ok if I just turned up? In the past when he has been really busy at work and he has not been able to make something a couple of times he has always messaged me and let me know that he can not make it but today he has not said anything. Last Friday when we had plans I did not message him and confirm, I just turned up and he seemed happy and did not mention the fact that I did not confirm. The thing is we made the plans a day before not two days before. Would you be annoyed if your partner just turned up for something you regualar basis with out confirmation? Im just confused. This is not normal for him. I dont want to message again becasue he is at work and I dont want to seem like im bugging him but I dont want to not turn up either because he might think that im rude or something. Please help!
bayouboi Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 If he truly adores you I don't see a problem with you just turn(ing) up. If he doesn't like you turn(ing) up, then there may be a deeper rooted problem. I planted a thought in my girl's mind that it was my delight when she sprung a visit on me and the following week she did just that and it was glorious ^_^
loveslife Posted April 1, 2009 Posted April 1, 2009 It's still early. Give him time to respond to the message.
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