9Lives Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 I was wonder what standards do women out there have about having sex with a man before you are exclusively dating each other. Are you comfortable having sex with him if you know he is sleeping with other women? protected (let them tell it). If you DONT sleep with him until you know that you are exclusive, how do you present it to him? Are you scared he is going to stop calling you? How do you handle the conversation if you really like him but want to get to know him better?
CandyGirlXO Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 No if I am interested in the guy then I definately do not sleep with him until we are exclusive. I just bring it up in conversation somehow, by saying how I don't sleep around etc... Just bring it up in a casual conversation. I have had one FWB situation and it worked out great, because thats what we both wanted at the time.
redant Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 Why would you be scared it's your body. If you have sex just not to risk losing him is dumb. I mean I think you will be more respected if you show some self respect. I would not want to sleep with someone who is sleeping with others no.
Author 9Lives Posted March 17, 2009 Author Posted March 17, 2009 Why would you be scared it's your body. If you have sex just not to risk losing him is dumb. I mean I think you will be more respected if you show some self respect. I would not want to sleep with someone who is sleeping with others no. Well I am asking because I think that it is important to be exclusive in order to get to the "sugar sugar". Women are stronger when they are not having sex for some reason. We are not as emotional and we are less demanding. Once we start having sex often with a guy before he declares us his women, things start to get complicated. The views on this topic are very interesting. Some women will have sex to keep a man interested so they think
mr.dream merchant Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 No if I am interested in the guy then I definately do not sleep with him until we are exclusive. I just bring it up in conversation somehow, by saying how I don't sleep around etc... Just bring it up in a casual conversation. I have had one FWB situation and it worked out great, because thats what we both wanted at the time. I dont understand this post. You only sex when exclusive but had a FWB?
Trialbyfire Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 No, I've never had sex with anyone previous to an exclusive relationship. Quite a number of women bond with sex. There are far less who can compartmentalize sex and caring. With this in mind, why would any woman want to bond to someone who's either not that into you or not that committed to you, if they're unable to compartmentalize?
CandyGirlXO Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 I dont understand this post. You only sex when exclusive but had a FWB? Yup you got it just perfect. I have had one FWB situation because my EX purposed and then left me for no reason and I didn't believe in love at the time. But like I said before only once did I do that. What is there not to understand about that?
spookie Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 Meh. Sex has made me cry with every single guy other than my first BF. It didn't matter whether or not we were exclusive, because I didn't want to be.
CandyGirlXO Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 Meh. Sex has made me cry with every single guy other than my first BF. It didn't matter whether or not we were exclusive, because I didn't want to be. Really?!?! Explain please
Author 9Lives Posted March 17, 2009 Author Posted March 17, 2009 No, I've never had sex with anyone previous to an exclusive relationship. Quite a number of women bond with sex. There are far less who can compartmentalize sex and caring. With this in mind, why would any woman want to bond to someone who's either not that into you or not that committed to you, if they're unable to compartmentalize? this is very interesting. I tried the FWB and it did affect my emotions. Women bond with sex is right. I have changed my view and I am better off not having sex unless it is something special.
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