kashmir Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 See, this is what kind of discouraged me. I don't many opportunities to meet girls. My classes have mostly guys and I rarely get to go out to parties. When I do, it's usually with the same people at the same house. I've gone to "real" club-like parties in the past, where there's a ton of people, music, people hooking up, but those parties are not my thing at all. So the only chance I get to talk to a girl is that one I see on the bus every now and then or the one who's sitting alone in the coffee shop. That's my only shot at meeting new girls, but from what I've read here it seems like women want to be left alone in the daytime, regardless of whether they find the guy attractive or not. Women are so hard and lucky.
D-Lish Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 Grocery store, video store, starbucks, these are all fine places.... As others have mentioned- it all comes down to whether or not you find the guy in question attractive. If someone talks to me- I am always friendly. If I am not interested, I won't draw out the conversation (but I will always be polite as long as he is). What I will do if I am inviting a conversation is make eye contact and smile. A double take and a smile is even better.
era Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 Where do you think its inappropriate/Appropriate places for a man to strike up a conversation with you? Please don't bother me at the supermarket or pharmacy. If you'd like to try talking to me at the pet supplies store that's okay.
missdependant Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 LOL Oh damn i guess i better quit trolling the Tampon Isle!! :lmao::lmao: It doesn't matter where you hit on someone as long as the situation is right. Use common sense, of course. Don't go hitting on someone at your psychiatric evaluation.. probably not the tampon aisle either. But yeah... out shopping, church, school, online dating is pretty popular, concerts, libraries, the park, beach, hiking... possibilities are really endless. Just be creative, and don't be creepy. Oh.... and I'd avoid the bars unless you're just looking for a lay. I mean depending on where you live. I'm in a college town so they're ALWAYS a bad idea, heh.
Princess_in_love Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 I was underwear shopping one day, I think I was at Target. I had some panties/bras in my hand when a guy came up and started flirting with me. I found it very disturbing. He wasn't particularly attractive, but I think I would have been "disturbed" had it been a much more attractive man, as well. If I were shopping in another department at Target, however, I wouldn't have cared. It was simply because I had underwear in my hands. I was picking out something that was very private, so I felt almost cornered. I think if I were picking up a prescription, or if I were at a doctor's office, I would also feel disturbed. Those are the main places I can think of...
blondesmiler Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 I was underwear shopping one day, I think I was at Target. I had some panties/bras in my hand when a guy came up and started flirting with me. I found it very disturbing. He wasn't particularly attractive, but I think I would have been "disturbed" had it been a much more attractive man, as well. If I were shopping in another department at Target, however, I wouldn't have cared. It was simply because I had underwear in my hands. I was picking out something that was very private, so I felt almost cornered. I think if I were picking up a prescription, or if I were at a doctor's office, I would also feel disturbed. Those are the main places I can think of... Well yes because why would a man thats hitting on a girl be in the womens underwear department, unless either buying for his G/F, Wife, SO in which case he shouldn't be hitting on another or he is a perv. Good looking or pig ugly, I would also not be that happy about it. Alan - try to go to Supermarket after work in the evenings rather than weekends when its couples/families that mainly go. Stay clear of talking to anyone in the forementioned aisles. Go to the gym, I never mind anyone talking to me there, even when I am in my bikini in the pool or jacuzzi, its ok aslong as it is just light hearted convo rather than full on "you have nice tits, care to go out with me" kinda thing . But seriously sometimes someone might talk with you, like mention the loud kids in the pool or the broken spa, how busy the gym was/is.....this is acceptable. Another good one, is if your clothes shopping for yourself in the mall and you want an opinion on a shirt, ask someone close by (even if you don't like them, practice on them, on good looking shop assistants to build your confidence up) Asking do you think this shirt looks ok, what do you think of the colour? easy Don't be creepy, like you are trying too hard, just be natural and funny.
I'm Joe Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 its ok aslong as it is just light hearted convo rather than full on "you have nice tits, care to go out with me" kinda thing Aha! That's where I have been going wrong. How about this one next time "Excuse me ma'am but I couldn't help but notice what a powerful erection you've just given me. Care to help out? Too romantic?
SpanksTheMonkey Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 Maybe i should study up on "women products" and make a recommendation! OMG lmao... just the idea I can see it now.. the guy.. "you know these are 20% more absorbent than those!" whadda way to kick things off.... :lmao:
Jersey Shortie Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 How about this one next time "Excuse me ma'am but I couldn't help but notice what a powerful erection you've just given me. Care to help out? Too romantic? At least he is polite. I think that some of the ladies here are being snobs to be honest. "Don't approach me here..do approach me here.." :/ Give the guys a break ladies. And be thankful, if the guy isn't a creep, that he is interested in you enough to say something. Even if you don't like him. As a lady, I say go for it guys. Even if the girl isn't interested at least you tried. And if she is going to be a priss because you dared say hi to her in the supermarket, you don't want to date her anyway. Try giving the guys a break sometimes Ladies. A long time agin, I remember this one young guy trying to hit on at the supermarket and I got all flustered and taking back and pretty much ran the other way but he was damn cute and I regret it now. And it was my fault for having the stupid rule that you don't pick up guys in supermarkets or vice versa.
blondesmiler Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 At least he is polite. I think that some of the ladies here are being snobs to be honest. "Don't approach me here..do approach me here.." :/ Give the guys a break ladies. And be thankful, if the guy isn't a creep, that he is interested in you enough to say something. Even if you don't like him. As a lady, I say go for it guys. Even if the girl isn't interested at least you tried. And if she is going to be a priss because you dared say hi to her in the supermarket, you don't want to date her anyway. Try giving the guys a break sometimes Ladies. A long time agin, I remember this one young guy trying to hit on at the supermarket and I got all flustered and taking back and pretty much ran the other way but he was damn cute and I regret it now. And it was my fault for having the stupid rule that you don't pick up guys in supermarkets or vice versa. Firstly we are only giving advice on the question asked ie. appropriate places to speak to women. We not saying don't just probably not wise, would a guy feel comfortable being chatted up while in Walgreens looking over the baldness treatments, just for men hair dye or cream for his piles.......probably not, thats all that is being said. Time and place. All that was said, supermarket is fine just avoid any women looking over the tampax or canesten one treatment cause she has thrush and would probably be extremely embarassed if a guy started chatting to her while she had a jumbo pack of bodyform ultra in her hands. Thus the guy would think the women wasn't interested because she got really embarassed and flustered because of this situ, and then causing a lose/lose situation rather than a win/win one.
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