Brady_to_Moss Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 My friend who is a girl is dating this guy. They fight everyday and she never answer his txts or calls yets always goes and shes him and has sex with him. Yet she will come into our room crying saying how she just wants some who will care for her and not use her...umm how stupid can she be? We have told her a number of times what she needs to do....get rid of this guy. He has allready slept with girl while they were dating and my friend told him she was done with him yet the next day crawling back to him. Maybe i am wondering why she is putting herself through this is because i use to like this girl and she knows this but she always goes for the guy who wont treat her right unlike me. If she would have realized that i am a good guy, maybe i would be with her but i am done with her in that way. Still a very good friend. I just dont know why such a nice girl would keep crawling back to this sleeze ball.
kashmir Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 You see this all over the place. The sad truth is that girls are attracted to these "sleaze balls" because they're cocky and completely full of themselves. Girls DREAM of a guy who is confident in himself but is also a gentleman, but unfortunately they don't find many guys like that. Thus, they have to pick between the jerks and nice guys, and they always go for the jerks. Self-confidence is more attractive than being a kind gentleman, but being a gentleman is not unattractive. You just need to master both, which isn't easy, but certainly doable.
kdark Posted January 24, 2009 Posted January 24, 2009 She is a girl. Girls like jerks. Women like men. Like my old pal DanielMadr told me years ago on this forum, there is a difference between a bad boy and a good man. Girls love em both, but are only happy long term with good men.
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