dazed.1 Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 I'm getting back into the dating scene after a 3 year long relationship. I just turned 24 so the majority of my "mature relationship years" (ie) out of high school, were with this one man. Now I am finding that I am struggling in the dating world. I have feelings for this guys that I have sort of known for a while, but I was never in the market before so I never showed any interest. I guess I just don't know how to get his attention now that I am in the market and I AM interested. In my mind a lot has changed: I am over my ex and I am ready to begin a new R; but to him, I am still the same woman that wasn't interested when we first met and I really don't even know if he gives it a second thought. I am pretty sure he is physically attracted to me, and we are in the same professional college so he knows I am intelligant, I just don't know how to let him know I am interested so that he can take it from there if the feelings are mutual.
You'reasian Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 I am over my ex and I am ready to begin a new R; but to him, I am still the same woman that wasn't interested when we first met and I really don't even know if he gives it a second thought. I am pretty sure he is physically attracted to me, and we are in the same professional college so he knows I am intelligant, I just don't know how to let him know I am interested so that he can take it from there if the feelings are mutual. Communicate. Flirt with the guy, let him know you are interested. He'll pick up on it. You've got nothing to lose.
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