Author likestolaugh Posted January 20, 2009 Author Posted January 20, 2009 If she goes in for the side of the mouth kiss, move slightly so she plants one on your lips. Then grab the back of her head (not roughly though) and hold the kiss and pull back before she does. Maybe, as you're pulling back, bite her lip very lightly so it "stretches" a little. Let us know how that works. I might need to try it sometime. right... so I'm to be your guinea pig lol? Anyway, it isn't a bad idea... but no lip bite. As I said, she's very... "proper".... at the moment. I've got the eyebrow kiss once... but it was in bed, so it made sense. Outside of that it's just odd lol
prettybaby Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 I didn't read the whole thread but I think the poor girl is waiting for you to make a move lol Kiss her, for sure. She's probably just a bit unsure, but it definitely sounds like she really likes you in a romantic way.
sultry33 Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 right... so I'm to be your guinea pig lol? Anyway, it isn't a bad idea... but no lip bite. As I said, she's very... "proper".... at the moment. I've got the eyebrow kiss once... but it was in bed, so it made sense. Outside of that it's just odd lol lol it wasnt in bed... i just damn missed;) nerves make us to silly things keep us posted on progress and good luck
Frankasy Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 Well maybe she's just doesn't feel that you two have reached that level, where you can touch each other in public. But believe me, maybe it's also a sign that she could not be interested in you, trust me it's possible. Anyways just do your game, maybe not with the poking and stuff although I know that it's a pretty good way to score sometimes, use words, maybe those will unfreeze her a bit. If nothing works and you've tried your best, start preparing for the second thing I said.
Author likestolaugh Posted January 21, 2009 Author Posted January 21, 2009 alrighty guys It's definitely at the dating stage now. I saw her last night at 5:30... was with her till 10 am this morning. She stayed over at my place (didn't sleep together or anything.. we both like to take things slow). The whole damned "kissing barrier" has been broken (more like shattered) at least ... we discussed a few things such as where we see things being right now... and we seem to be on a similar page. So guys there's your update... thanks all for the kind words and advice along the way
ruggy Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 I had the same reaction, but reverse, as women I dated in the past said I never touched them enough. You know, show public affection. So, on my last date, we were talking, and I held her hand for a few minutes. She did not pull away or move her hand, just starred in my eyes. I thought it was nice. Anyways, back to you. Try going for here hand or put your around her back/waist (not butt). See the reaction you get and proceed from there.
samspade Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 It's definitely at the dating stage now. I saw her last night at 5:30... was with her till 10 am this morning. She stayed over at my place (didn't sleep together or anything.. we both like to take things slow). The whole damned "kissing barrier" has been broken (more like shattered) at least ... we discussed a few things such as where we see things being right now... and we seem to be on a similar page. So guys there's your update... thanks all for the kind words and advice along the way I'm sorry, but if she was in your bed (was she?) or you slept on the same piece of furniture, you should have broken a lot more barriers. I hope to God you weren't cuddling. She wanted you to bang her. Unless it's against your/her religion or something.
Author likestolaugh Posted January 22, 2009 Author Posted January 22, 2009 I'm sorry, but if she was in your bed (was she?) or you slept on the same piece of furniture, you should have broken a lot more barriers. I hope to God you weren't cuddling. She wanted you to bang her. Unless it's against your/her religion or something. You know, not every woman wants to be banged just because she stays over. Anyway, I gave her the bed... we weren't sleeping together in that sense. See, given the way things have gone, it just didn't feel like the right time for either of us to break any more barriers yet. It would have seemed monumentally sleezy if I'd made a move in that direction, trust me. I'll see her again anyway... not a big deal.
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