peacebyinches Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 Im starting to get pissed at myself, at her, at everything surrounding this situation. So I poured my heart out in an email last night and texted her 7 this morning and the talk to her about 4 hours today and the bitch didnt call back like she said she would. I KNOW WHY!! To see if Im gonna call. She said she missed me while I was NC. I seen the updated profile views on MySpace and that she logged in. Lost the feeling my ass. She dont know what the **** she wants or she wouldnt want to stay friends. When a woman is no longer attracted they bounce. They dont offer to still have sex. They dont say "I dont want to hang up with you." You aint gonna use me to feel better or keep me hanging on so you can decide what you want. Im mad. **** that Im furious right now. Im done being all sad and ****. I want my power back. Anyway back to my original intent. Why are we so quick to empathize and say "I feel ya man" "I know it hurts". How about man up. Stop being a girl about it. Or stop being a sucker or whatever. They left us. They knew it would hurt us. WHY DO WE LET THEM WIN BY HURTING!!!!!! Im getting mad at it. I aint being some soft core dude about this **** no more.
alphamale Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 WHY DO WE LET THEM WIN BY HURTING!!!!!! tsk tsk tsk....you have much to learn young jedi
moonshadow Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 Dude, you seem to be out of control here. Maybe you should seek some professional help? Relationships end every day, that is life...........you eventually move on and get on with your life. You don't seem to be doing that and you continue to have contact (and sex) with her when she's made it clear she doesn't want a relationship with you. Stop making yourself the victim. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and stop with the drama and obsession. There are many other fish in the sea. End contact with her if she's not on the same page with you and let it go, my god.
Author peacebyinches Posted December 29, 2008 Author Posted December 29, 2008 Dude, you seem to be out of control here. Maybe you should seek some professional help? Relationships end every day, that is life...........you eventually move on and get on with your life. You don't seem to be doing that and you continue to have contact (and sex) with her when she's made it clear she doesn't want a relationship with you. Stop making yourself the victim. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and stop with the drama and obsession. There are many other fish in the sea. End contact with her if she's not on the same page with you and let it go, my god. You are right. We had a great relationship and now its done. There's no reason for regret, or guilt, or what ifs. It is just over. It ran it's course. This is the what if. Thanks. What you said makes all the sense in the world.
replicator Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 Yep.. It sucks.. It hurts.. Hopes and dreams down the toilet. Still, you're still breathing, and that means there is hope. Hope for better things down the road. The way I try to see it nowadays is why try to resurrect a failed relationship, when there are so many fish in the sea? Surely there must be someone out there that is better suited for you than someone who doesn't treat you right. Don't settle, and keep yourself available so when the right person comes along, you're also ready. Perhaps I'm too much of a dreamer and an optimist, but that's the way I see it now. Let it go, and look forward and not backwards.
saturnfell Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 An old friend of mine gave my sage advice once: think of three things a day. Think of three negative things about your ex a day. This will help you in the healing process. Instead of overloading your mind with constant thoughts and running circles, three things only (trust me that's more than they deserve you to even be thinking about them at all) You'll eventually feel better and you won't need to use this exercise anymore. Give it a try for a week (not a long time in the scheme of things) If it doesn't start helping you feel better, go back to thinking a mile a minute about this person if you choose.
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