Dexter Morgan Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 Freudian slip? No, thoughts didn't translate to the fingers. I meant just because I list these traits means that I think all women exhibit them. I'm looking for the women that don't act this way.
D-Jam Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 Plain and simple answer for me: She doesn't treat me as well as I treat her.She doesn't make me happy in the relationship.
sumdude Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 - Dishonest (little white lies do get a pass..depending) - disrespectful - expects me to read her mind ( I can't just know how you feel or what you want) - self-centered - hyper critical - lazy - flirts with just about every guy around - speaks way more than she listens - blames her problems on others - always seems to have an 'enemy' at work - uses sex as a bargaining chip (ie "Well I GAVE you sex last night!") - has way more male friends than female friends - generally bitter about men - history of cheating - I'm not physically attracted - is either too shy or too overbearing
Brimstone_Angel Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 Dishonesty/untrustworthinessLack of a direction in her lifeSilly gamesCheating (emotionally and/or physically)SelfishnessBeing mistreatedLack of communicationInability to forgive and forgetRudenessUncaringness towards othersToo much alone time, too much togethernessInability to compromise, share, and submitSecretiveness/closenessUnwilling to do the things I like even if I she don't like itInability to changeFeeling like we are not progressingLying, cheating, stealing, murdering, etc.
MN randomguy Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 *Man hater/overly feminist *bossy *poor listener, talks about her interests no time / interest in letting me talk about my life. Self absorbed. *bitter about that girl who she thinks is prettier/richer etc. *shopaholic, no legitimate interests *parades victimhood to get attention *princess *crude / no manners / lack of class *clingy, no life/friends of her own *excessive moodiness, does not make an effort to control her emotions and be fair to people
elaina Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 *Man hater/overly feminist *bossy *poor listener, talks about her interests no time / interest in letting me talk about my life. Self absorbed. *bitter about that girl who she thinks is prettier/richer etc. *shopaholic, no legitimate interests *parades victimhood to get attention *princess *crude / no manners / lack of class *clingy, no life/friends of her own *excessive moodiness, does not make an effort to control her emotions and be fair to people Explain princess please?
Brimstone_Angel Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 Explain princess please? The kind of woman who thinks she is entitled to something. That woman who has her nose upturned while looking down on others. Someone who thinks her poop don't stink and that she walks on roses.
elaina Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 The kind of woman who thinks she is entitled to something. That woman who has her nose upturned while looking down on others. Someone who thinks her poop don't stink and that she walks on roses. Mmmm ok. So you're an expert on princesses hmm? Don't shatter my illusion of princesses though please... I was thinking Jasmine of Aladdin or Cinderella or Belle... how could anybody have anything against them!? (Yeah I know they aren't real... don't worry.) I love those fairytales though!!!
MN randomguy Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 Explain princess please? basically, if you think that the world owes you. If you're unwilling to work and expect to be rich. If you base other's value on how much use they are to you. Being concerned about how you are perceived over what's best in reality. Wanting to be the center of attention in all situations. Not against being girlie, you can wear your heels and dress on a night out and I'll tell you you're pretty. But, don't buy your mountain bike based on color.
Vertex Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 -Dishonesty -Not treating me as well as I treat her -Disrespect -Inability/unwillingness to communicate her thoughts -Lack of affection
Brimstone_Angel Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 basically, if you think that the world owes you. If you're unwilling to work and expect to be rich. If you base other's value on how much use they are to you. Being concerned about how you are perceived over what's best in reality. Wanting to be the center of attention in all situations. Not against being girlie, you can wear your heels and dress on a night out and I'll tell you you're pretty. But, don't buy your mountain bike based on color. There was this one Divorce Court case where this wife was divorcing her husband AFTER he spent up all his settlement money trying to fulfill her material desires. She also had this pink fetish. And she made sure he brought her this expensive Mustang in pink. Everything she wore was some shade of pink. You want to talk about a total princess. Lets put it like this...She would be the one to spoil anyone's illusions of what a princess was. Yeah, if Jasmine or Snow White were real, we'd probably blacklist them too just for having the title. Oh. Of course she did not work at the time. Neither did he. And she was like, "Well he knew what I was like and what I wanted and how I expected to be treated." Ah. An even better way to think of princess. A gold digging, high maintenance woman x10.
zicke Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 There was this one Divorce Court case where this wife was divorcing her husband AFTER he spent up all his settlement money trying to fulfill her material desires. She also had this pink fetish. And she made sure he brought her this expensive Mustang in pink. Everything she wore was some shade of pink. You want to talk about a total princess. Lets put it like this...She would be the one to spoil anyone's illusions of what a princess was. Yeah, if Jasmine or Snow White were real, we'd probably blacklist them too just for having the title. Oh. Of course she did not work at the time. Neither did he. And she was like, "Well he knew what I was like and what I wanted and how I expected to be treated." Ah. An even better way to think of princess. A gold digging, high maintenance woman x10. Well, He DID know what she was like and still married her anyways. He has some fault here as well. If men would quit putting up with this kind of behavior, women would stop it. But there are always men out there willing to take this kind of thing. And then wonder why things didn't work out in the en. Same goes for women and jerk men.
canigetanswers Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 smsing constantly when she's with me. smoking (unless she's a friend, not a date) turning up way late disrespect (very general term but too many to go into specifics) will update when i think of more
Mary3 Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 -Dishonesty -Not treating me as well as I treat her -Disrespect -Inability/unwillingness to communicate her thoughts -Lack of affection The LACK of these ends many relationships...Right On Vertex !
berrieh Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Plain and simple answer for me: She doesn't treat me as well as I treat her.She doesn't make me happy in the relationship. Just wanted to say: Best answer ever IMO.
gd26 Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 another deal-breaker for me is if she doesn't dress feminine, like wearing makeup, skirts and high-heels. her wardrobe don't have to be by chanel but she should dress and look like a woman. went out once with a nice lady and she told me she only wears flats...never called her again Although I think it's certainly important for people to keep themselves looking nice for themselves and their partners, there are some things socially-based which are not good for us. For instance, a woman may not wear heels because she is health-focused. Wearing heels tightens the hamstrings (long-term) and causes problems with the knees and hips. It has also been linked to urinary problems as well because it affects the body's alignment. (I'm NOT kidding here. I am in the health field myself. If anyone is really interested, do an internet search on this topic.) Although many petite women feel socially obligated to wear heels, it really isn't healthy for us. I can't imagine a guy wanting me to do something bad for my body just to appeal to him. I'd never do that. Yes, I wear heels, but only to job interviews and such. Otherwise, I try to be as comfortable as possible. I think I am sexiest when I am comfortable.
Danny09 Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 I'd say that's very near to 100% of women. And certainly all desirable women. That's basically saying "I don't like girls unless they go for every single 'nice guy' that comes around." The 'nice guys' treat women well, but they lack a considerable amount of masculinity. It's not interesting to have some guy always trying to do what he thinks I want him to do. It's annoying. He should be his own person. Yes, a guy can treat a women well and still be his own person and be masculine. But a lot of the guys who treat women well can hardly be considered MEN to begin with. So you like to be man handled?
malibustacydoll Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 1) 10) Addicted to any substance quote] What about Diet Coke with lime? MMMMMMM.
Mary3 Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 1) 10) Addicted to any substance quote] What about Diet Coke with lime? MMMMMMM. I read that diet sodas actually cause weight gain not only because of the sodium content but the psycholocial factor that since one is drinking low calorie sodas that they can eat more food !
lovestruck818 Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 When she is broke, my money and I run the other way. If she is still hung up on her ex. If her kids are brats. If she lives too close or is too close to other people in my life. But what if she is educated, extremely bright, works hard and yet doesn't make a lot of money? I am a perfect example of that. I work about 8am-10pm and I barely make enough money. I would not say I am broke but I am nowhere near well to do. However I am certainly not lazy or stupid.
CommitmentPhobe Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 But what if she is educated, extremely bright, works hard and yet doesn't make a lot of money? I am a perfect example of that. I work about 8am-10pm and I barely make enough money. I would not say I am broke but I am nowhere near well to do. However I am certainly not lazy or stupid. Speaking of deal breakers - why on earth are you working that long?
Humbleman Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 Speaking of deal breakers - why on earth are you working that long? What I'd like to know is why it is ok for her to refuse to date a man who doesn't have a degree at the age of 22 and then come into here trying to get a man to change his "dealbreakers" as it doesn't bode well for her?
Viking Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 I read that diet sodas actually cause weight gain not only because of the sodium content but the psycholocial factor that since one is drinking low calorie sodas that they can eat more food ! Diet sodas don't have calories... A deal breaker for me is CLINGY-NESS or being very blatant and laying it on really really thick. Not what I like because it conveys a neediness about someone and an insecurity. Other deal breakers include being loud and obnoxious, drinking to excess or being kind of a stalker.
CandyGirlXO Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 Well how MUCH money are we talking about here? I have a job, a degree, but I don't make that much money. Plus I have no children, I do have debt however from school and my car, which adds up to a lot IMO but I am not lazy either.
Green Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 Well how MUCH money are we talking about here? I have a job, a degree, but I don't make that much money. Plus I have no children, I do have debt however from school and my car, which adds up to a lot IMO but I am not lazy either. You're so sexy candygirl if only you had no debt and lived in a better state you'd be a real catch
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