didittomyself Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 I broke NC and find myself back at square one with a heart doubly shattered. I emailed, her, she emailed me back, that led to chatting which lead to texting, which led to a phone call inviting me to dinner, Dinner led to her suggesting a walk on the beach we used to frequent. For me this led to feelings rekindled in my heart and a bevy of hope and expectations we sat around that night in each others arms, hand in hand exchanging light kisses for fear of taking it too far too soon. That was 2 nights ago, today, we chatted for a bit and she was very argumentative. It was like she was looking for a fight. I almost gave in and wanted to argue my point but resisted and let her have her chat victory. Why the mixed signals. I had hoped, that we could build off of our romantic night and slowly grow onone another again. But it seems she has econd thoughts of what happened and is being cold again to me. Why is she this way? I got the impression she only missed the affection and gave in that night because she missed the closeness and not that she missed me. This hurts because my mind built up the night as a stepping stone for better things to come. My heart is hurting again like it did when she first left me. Why?
Dmoney28 Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 whats was the reason of your break up? I want to give my 2 cents, but not sure what your circumstances are. It sounds like maybe she needs more time to her self. Maybe you should have kept NC for longer...just to give each other time to cool off and have a clear head. I think you fell into what this one guy called "premature reconciliation". You jumped the gun maybe. once again, can you explain further the cause of the break up?
Angel1111 Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 Most women don't sleep with a guy just because they miss the affection but not the guy. I'm not sure what she's being argumentative about. Maybe you can shed a little more light on what this involved?
Author didittomyself Posted November 4, 2008 Author Posted November 4, 2008 whats was the reason of your break up? I want to give my 2 cents, but not sure what your circumstances are. It sounds like maybe she needs more time to her self. Maybe you should have kept NC for longer...just to give each other time to cool off and have a clear head. I think you fell into what this one guy called "premature reconciliation". You jumped the gun maybe. once again, can you explain further the cause of the break up? You hit on the dot...premature premature almost reconciliation....we almost made up, never made an official statement but the actions spoke for itself and for some background see my first post.... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t168183/?highlight=rebound
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