outofit Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 There's so much that I need to say to get you out of my head. We were together for three years and I loved you so much, that I stuck by you while you beat me and called me names. What did I do to deserve that? You always come back into my life wanting to know how I am...I slipped up this past May and found out I was pregnant in June with your child. I am now 7 months pregnant and I hate you. You always try to tear me down. You are such a low life that you started dateing my whore next door neighbor. Congrats Stupid....You are probably a number to her. What do I care? I encouraged you to move on because I would never put my family through the crap that you put us through...but I can't help but hate you because I'm trying to get over you and you are making it harder because I have to see your car at her house. Why can't you just go jump off a cliff and stay out of my life? It's apparent you don't want to have anything to do with your child, and I'm cool with that. Blayden already has a daddy...even though it's not his biological dad..he will never know.... So get off of my street and stay out of my life. Don't ever ask me to be your friend again. You owe me more than 100 bucks and instead of paying your debt off to me, you still insist on being a loser. Why do I always fall for your crap about being a changed man? I am a very attractive woman and I know what I want in my life... You come back in the picture and I feel compelled to help you and you end up destroying my pride.... I'm so ANGRY with you.... Stay Away...Just STAY AWAY.... I don't love you...but I do...I am so disgusted with you at this moment and there is one thing that you will never get back.... ME.... I'm through with this emotional rollercoaster. I am moving off of my street and into another town...already deleted my myspace account and changed my phone number so you can no longer contact me. Your cruel ways have to be stopped.... I'm thankful that I have a man that loves me on my good and bad days... Guess I held on cause I thought I could eventually trust you with not hurting me...WRONG.... I know you are with my neighbor to get under my skin and honestly you disgust me. She has herpes...and I thank God that I was with you before you got with her. There's a reason girls like her are single, because she is easy and she will let anyone in her bed...not exactly someone you would want to introduce to your parents. I'm moving on because I have to keep my sanity for my boys and my man. I went behind my man's back to be your friend and it is time for me to stop being so codependent and realize this is my life. I will NEVER contact you again...No matter how bad I want to because you have completely scraped the bottom of the barrel and ENOUGH IS ENOUGH...
Touche Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 Ok, it's late and I'm tired so forgive me if I've got this wrong but as I understand it: You cheated on your man with a sleaze bag. And now you're having his kid but you're making the man who loves you and has stood by you believe that it's HIS kid? But you're mad at the sleaze bag guy you slept with for being a sleaze bag? Have I got that right? Like sands through an hourglass, so does the world turn
Mr. Lucky Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 Ok, it's late and I'm tired so forgive me if I've got this wrong but as I understand it: You cheated on your man with a sleaze bag. And now you're having his kid but you're making the man who loves you and has stood by you believe that it's HIS kid? But you're mad at the sleaze bag guy you slept with for being a sleaze bag? Have I got that right? You left out the other sleaze bag that claims that her sleaze bag got her pregnant at the same time. And the next door sleaze bag that her sleaze bag has moved on to. And that this is the OP's second pregnancy by her sleaze bag. All in all, a very fertile group ... Mr. Lucky
Touche Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 You left out the other sleaze bag that claims that her sleaze bag got her pregnant at the same time. And the next door sleaze bag that her sleaze bag has moved on to. And that this is the OP's second pregnancy by her sleaze bag. All in all, a very fertile group ... Mr. Lucky OMG, are you serious? My head is spinning. I can't keep up. How did I miss that the first time. It's mind boggling. And what about this? I will NEVER contact you again...No matter how bad I want to Ok, outofit, I'm seriously not making fun of you here but please wake up and smell the coffee will you? Why would you want to have all this drama in your life? Don't you want to have a good and peaceful life? And why would it be hard for you to not contact this loser? I seriously don't get it. Please know that I wish you the best. But you can't deceive anyone about this baby. That's just not right. Do the right thing here, will you?
theobserver Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 Please don't fool a man into fathering a child that is not his. Your "new man" has clearly been a stand up man so far, and so far the ex sleazebag you talk about is apparently no worse then you. Enough to of had 2 children created from your passion and the second time while you are with this new guy who you've tricked into believing the first is his and now your planning on letting him think the second is too? Your children's Bio father is a bum way to let him pass on his genes again congratulations. I hope they turn out nothing like him I really do. The real victim here isn't even them, and it certainly is not you. It is your boyfriends. You need to f*cking wise up and tell him the truth, and you know what he MIGHT even decide to still stay or support your ass (and I know he is) but don't be surprised if he wants to leave. Don't you dare think you can hide this forever because one day one of them kids may get ill and by some circumstance after some tests find out their "dad" is not their father and they will absolutely be disgusted with you. Listen I don't mean to be mean, I understand a womans drive to protect her children and in some cases to make sure it has a father even if it's by deception but in our society it's not needed. We're not in caves anymore nobody worth their salt will look down on you those that do aren't worth knowing. It's a shame I read something that so and so % of people who believe x is their father actually isn't is rather sad. Unless you have say interracial parents (but still a small chance) or have a dna test you just never know what MuM got up to. Anyway I'm sure you'll do what you want, still lusting after this ex yet loath him at the same time. You better just hope that he never becomes lonely and regretful in life because the day he does he will come knocking on your door asking to see "HIS" children and that's a whole bunch of noise you do not want, best do deal with it now.
Geishawhelk Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 ....You've only ever posted twice....the first time, last August.... and this is what you wrote then. You're a bit of a mess, really, aren't you?
GPFan Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 Please give serious consideration to tubal ligation or other appropriate sterilisation procedure upon or immediately after the birth of this baby. I doubt your choices will improve but, at the very least, do not subject any more children to your poor decisions. Paternity fraud is being brought into awareness and men's rights organisations are lobbying for criminal and civil sanctions against perpetrators with a fair measure of success. It is a matter of time before we see these sanctions enacted into law universally. Paternity fraud hurts the child too. Unfortunately women who do this don't care. Please, please ensure no more children are born into this drama play being passed off as a legitimate lifestyle.
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