johan Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I have a friend who is leaving the country for several weeks. He needs someone to check his mail and water his plants while he's gone. I honestly don't want to be bothered with it. I did it before, and felt is was ridiculous. I think if you're going to plan something like that, then you should be self-sufficient about it and not make it everyone else's trip, too. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 They do have companies that will do that kind of stuff for you.. maybe you could hire it out Johan .. be a real friend ... Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 There are self-watering plants, now? I gotta get me some of them. My houseplant is dying a slow, painful death, and I got "mother in law's tongue" or whatever it's called, and it's supposed to be impossible to kill. Anyway, isn't part of the reason you have a friend check on your place daily to discourage theft? That's what I've always heard. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Google plant water globes.. maybe it is time for an early B-day gift Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Where's your friend going? Anywhere exotic? I sense vacation resentment. Link to post Share on other sites
Author johan Posted September 25, 2008 Author Share Posted September 25, 2008 Where's your friend going? Anywhere exotic? I sense vacation resentment. He's headed to Europe. I have no envy. I just don't want to be obligated. He made all his plans and pretty much assumed me into them. I grudgingly do these things for family, but he's not family. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I wouldn't like it even if it was family...just tell him you're busy and can't. Link to post Share on other sites
Nemo Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 You should get at least a box of chocolates out of it. Maybe even a blowjob. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Unplug the fridge, let his plants die and leave his mail/newspapers to pile up. He'll never ask you again. Win/win. Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Don't forget to change the locks, move the furniture around, move the pictures, put plastic wrap on toilet seats, etc... Link to post Share on other sites
Author johan Posted September 25, 2008 Author Share Posted September 25, 2008 Not a bad idea. Some people are happy to do this kind of stuff. They cheerfully show up and do all the chores. I just get irked when I'm put on the spot. Like "hey, you're my friend right? That means you'll do all this stuff for me. I have a list." I hate being a necessary part of someone else's plans. I'd probably offer if he started describing how he's planning to get it taken care of on his own. But he didn't. He pretty much said "I'll be needing you to do this stuff". And I pretty much feel like I don't need to. I wouldn't bother posting about it, except I have to deal with the fact that I'm a bit of an assh*le when it comes to things like this. Link to post Share on other sites
Nemo Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Just do it. With a smile on your face, and a song in your heart. Link to post Share on other sites
Storyrider Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Why don't you agree only on the condition that he does a favor in return that is equally loathsome. Link to post Share on other sites
Nemo Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 It will probably be a really, really big box of chocolates. You won't be disappointed. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Did he ask or just assume you'd do it? I'm hoping he lives close by. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 What if he asked in a nice way instead of in an assumptive way? Would it still bother you as much? "Hey Johan, can you do me a favour? I'm going on a trip and was hoping someone could help me with the plants and stuff. It would help me out a lot." Link to post Share on other sites
Nemo Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I think you're just sore about being widely perceived as good-old-dependable johan, when you really want to be 100% pure badass. You've clearly been cultivating the wrong reputation. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I have a friend who is leaving the country for several weeks. He needs someone to check his mail and water his plants while he's gone. I honestly don't want to be bothered with it. I did it before, and felt is was ridiculous. I think if you're going to plan something like that, then you should be self-sufficient about it and not make it everyone else's trip, too. I agree with you. And nobody else will. People just love using others and being super-useful to others...not me...not you. Get used to it or lose the firend. It is what it is. F*ck! Link to post Share on other sites
Nemo Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Get used to it or lose the firend. I agree. Firends are good for nothing. In fact, I don't even know what a firend is. Useless! Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I agree. Firends are good for nothing. In fact, I don't even know what a firend is. Useless! You don't know what a friend is? It's the person who makes you feel great when you advance in your life, because they envy you and it's so obvious, it makes you feel really gooooooood... Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 I agree. Firends are good for nothing. In fact, I don't even know what a firend is. It's Serbo-Croatian for a certain kind of arrogant attitude. I agree with you. And nobody else will. People just love using others and being super-useful to others...not me...not you. Get used to it or lose the firend. It is what it is. F*ck! Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 It's Serbo-Croatian for a certain kind of arrogant attitude. Many friends turn out to be not-so-real friends; I think most people recognize this. I don't see what's so funny about a typing error nor do I see that the remark mentioning Serbo-Croatian language serves any purpose other than exercising arrogance. I spoke in general terms and the two of you are insulting me personally, even about things that have nothing to do with the topic. Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 RP - it was a joke - strictly a play on words about "lose the firend," and not a comment about your attitude. I used Serbo-Croatian because I remembered a little bit about where you come from and I was actually trying to personalize it to include you in the joke, but I'm sorry it didn't come off that way. I promise you there was no arrogance or ill will in my heart. I apologize and it won't happen again. Link to post Share on other sites
IfWishesWereHorses Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Many friends turn out to be not-so-real friends; I think most people recognize this. I don't see what's so funny about a typing error nor do I see that the remark mentioning Serbo-Croatian language serves any purpose other than exercising arrogance. I spoke in general terms and the two of you are insulting me personally, even about things that have nothing to do with the topic. Or Trimmer was trying to be funny????? Johan, Can you not bring the plants to your house to care for and call the post office and ask them to hold the mail until the date he returns? Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 RP - it was a joke - strictly a play on words about "lose the firend," and not a comment about your attitude. I used Serbo-Croatian because I remembered a little bit about where you come from and I was actually trying to personalize it to include you in the joke, but I'm sorry it didn't come off that way. I promise you there was no arrogance or ill will in my heart. I apologize and it won't happen again. OK. I am sorry too that I got it the wrong way. It happens on these forums all the time. Especially early in the morning, at 11,30 a.m. Link to post Share on other sites
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