Author Star Gazer Posted July 15, 2008 Author Share Posted July 15, 2008 [/i]I'd rather live well than post well. Me too. Link to post Share on other sites
StartingOver07 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 Okay, I can accept that. I was simply getting fed up with being told that he was an honorable man, yet only out for sex, and that it was my fault that he behaved as he did and he did not deserve the label "creep" or "pig"...I thought you were on the Bones Bandwagon. I can't speak for anyone else but I do not think he was honorable. I think he took advantage of you and the situation. I get the feeling that your brain and your heart are not working in concert at times. I am pretty sure you knew (intellectually) that this guy was a write-off. But at some level you seem to be hoping against hope that things might work out. If I had a wish for you, it would be to learn to lead with your head a little more. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Star Gazer Posted July 15, 2008 Author Share Posted July 15, 2008 I get the feeling that your brain and your heart are not working in concert at times. I am pretty sure you knew (intellectually) that this guy was a write-off. But at some level you seem to be hoping against hope that things might work out. If I had a wish for you, it would be to learn to lead with your head a little more. No, you're right. That's why I started this thread. In response, I received a ton of responses from people telling me I'm being too cerebral. I just can't win with LS. Link to post Share on other sites
StartingOver07 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 No, you're right. That's why I started this thread. In response, I received a ton of responses from people telling me I'm being too cerebral. I just can't win with LS. Pffftt... just ignore them! Link to post Share on other sites
confused and broken Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I think I'm getting a wee bit better identifying red flags, but I could still use your insight. Had a first date with a guy tonight. Had a lovely time. During the course of dinner, he mentioned that he's never been in love and never had his heart broken. He's in his mid-30's. He claims he was a "late bloomer," has always been the one doing the breaking up, and seems very self-assured. Is this weird, or am I just in the unenviable position of being in love and being crushed so badly that I cannot imagine what it's like to be in his shoes? Would you be concerned at all? Do you see any problems with this, knowing my history? I would be a bit weary just because he sounds unavailable... if you never give your heart it can be harder to break...but if he's never given his heart to anyone it sounds like he has some issues, and why would he change... people usually don't change at least not easily... BUT IT WAS THE FIRST DATE... WHO KNOWS... YOU WOULD HAVE TO GET TO KNOW HIM BETTER JUST BE CAREFUL WHICH YOU SHOULD BE ANYWAYS Link to post Share on other sites
Author Star Gazer Posted July 15, 2008 Author Share Posted July 15, 2008 I would be a bit weary just because he sounds unavailable... if you never give your heart it can be harder to break...but if he's never given his heart to anyone it sounds like he has some issues, and why would he change... people usually don't change at least not easily... BUT IT WAS THE FIRST DATE... WHO KNOWS... YOU WOULD HAVE TO GET TO KNOW HIM BETTER JUST BE CAREFUL WHICH YOU SHOULD BE ANYWAYS This thread has evolved waaaaaaaaaay beyond my first post. Try reading the entire thing, and then see what you think. Link to post Share on other sites
JP77 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I'll give you an insight, SG is frigid and doesn't understand men like me who expect women to worship us, as we are fantastic. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I'll give you an insight, SG is frigid and doesn't understand men like me who expect women to worship us, as we are fantastic. :laugh: and :sick: You're hysterical. You've obviously never been with a goddess. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Star Gazer Posted July 15, 2008 Author Share Posted July 15, 2008 SG is frigid :lmao: There's a first time for everything, including accusations... Never been called that before! Link to post Share on other sites
JP77 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 You're hysterical. You've obviously never been with a goddess. I have, only I destroyed them and sent them packing. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I have, only I destroyed them and sent them packing. No way. You wish. A goddess would never get with you in the first place. You'd be immediately relegated to the reject pile with the rest of them. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I'll give you an insight, SG is frigid and doesn't understand men like me who expect women to worship us, as we are fantastic. I could be wrong here.. but something tells me that if you posted a pic of yourself we would just see an average Joe Smoe, maybe a bit overweight, young, and quite a bit of time on their hands at night and on the weekends.. Correct ? You seem to have painted this picture of yourself that you are God's gift to women.. I would like to see what God's gift to women actually looks like.. Well ? Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 Great post, AC. Totally agree. Link to post Share on other sites
JP77 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 No way. You wish. A goddess would never get with you in the first place. You'd be immediately relegated to the reject pile with the rest of them. I wish for nothing, other than a sports car. I could be wrong here.. but something tells me that if you posted a pic of yourself we would just see an average Joe Smoe, maybe a bit overweight, young, and quite a bit of time on their hands at night and on the weekends.. Correct ? You seem to have painted this picture of yourself that you are God's gift to women.. I would like to see what God's gift to women actually looks like.. Well ? I have never said I was god's gift to women, it's called confidence and FYI, for every one woman I get, I get rejected by two. It's a luck game, the more you ask, the more success you have. Laws of probability. Oh do you want to see my picture so you can masturbate to it? Get some porn. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 That last response reeks of sostupid aka sosuave. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I have never said I was god's gift to women, it's called confidence and FYI, for every one woman I get, I get rejected by two. It's a luck game, the more you ask, the more success you have. Laws of probability. Dating is a game of numbers.. you are right that the more you date and ask the more you will go out and have sex... But I don't sense self confidence in your posts.. I sense something else.. something that can make you come off in the dating world as a tool... That doesn't mean you are a tool in real life, just that in the dating world the opposite sex might look at you that way. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 Mary, Perhaps i wasn't clear.. Most women will not go back to a mans house if they do NOT want to have sex with you, or are not ready to. So when a woman wants to come over, men tend to think she might want to at least fool around. Why would a woman go to a mans home who she is not even attracted to? And then call him a creep for trying. If he wasn't 60 pounds overweight, and he was cute, perhaps you would have went further. So don't play the "i am a good girl" game. You had no business being there if you had no attraction, or had no idea if you were attracted. Well honestly I would not go to an unattractive mans house . Do I realize by going to a handsome mans place that he might make a move ? Absolutely Will he necessarily get to first base ? Depends on the foreplay , lol Link to post Share on other sites
confused and broken Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 This thread has evolved waaaaaaaaaay beyond my first post. Try reading the entire thing, and then see what you think. Dude I got to page 11 and gave up... Link to post Share on other sites
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