Krytie TV Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 So what you are saying is that ALL men have had casual sex? I don't think its unrealistic to look for someone who has never had casual sex. Hmm... The problem with this logic is that the addition of the casual sex criteria in a man exponentially reduces your chances of finding that person. And most every person that you meet that said he has not had casual sex, would then break your requirement of not lying (because it would likely be a lie). And as Lizzie stated, a 30 yr old + man that truly has not ever had casual sex would likely not be a "desireable" person, as evidenced by the fact that no woman has ever wanted to have casual sex with him. If a man has never had CS, then it's because he is probably not all that outwardly attractive. He may be a great guy, but hook-ups are usually bred from good looks. This comes down to incompatibility at best and severe disillusionment with reality at worst. You have made several leaping conclusions about his character for doing something that probably 75% of men do. Yes, you should move on. However, if you do because of this, you should probably become a nun. Based on your interpretation of a "serious relationship", anything short of marriage does not qualify. So now you're looking for a man who does not believe in premarital sex. This is... not a reality. A fact that you will learn after years of futile searching. You have a lot of reflection to do cutegirl. You won't find a man that fits your criteria until you learn what about you makes you place these completely unrealistic expectations on men.
IpAncA Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 And as Lizzie stated, a 30 yr old + man that truly has not ever had casual sex would likely not be a "desireable" person, as evidenced by the fact that no woman has ever wanted to have casual sex with him. If a man has never had CS, then it's because he is probably not all that outwardly attractive. He may be a great guy, but hook-ups are usually bred from good looks. What? Where in the world did you come up with this?
Krytie TV Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Wow, your reality land stinks. You have no idea how badly my reality stinks. Keep in mind I don't speak in absolutes, but rather significant percentages.
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