OWoman Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 But since this is an OW forum and I feel like a big sister to the newbies, I feel it is my responsibility to let them know about the possible dangers of giving out TMI...There's not enough warnings about that on this forum... Sometimes too LITTLE informtion can also lead to stalking. I wrote something on a social networking site that led some random woman to believe I was her H's OW. She did eventually go away after I sent her a lawyer's letter (she wasn't smart enough to hide who she was electronically). Best take care, all round. Link to post Share on other sites
GreenEyedLady Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 I'd much rather err on the side of too little info, than too much... But there's definitely crazies out there... Link to post Share on other sites
Gwyneth Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 I use "my" loosly, and means the same as "my friend," "my toe," etc. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 I'd much rather err on the side of too little info, than too much... But there's definitely crazies out there... For the record... I think your spot on! I think I understand why the OP started this thread, however, I suggest anyone who post in this thread BE VERY GENERIC in your repsonse. Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted December 17, 2007 Share Posted December 17, 2007 But there's definitely crazies out there... As long as they stay "out there" and don't come "in here" <glancing nervously over shoulder> Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 Back to the original question. The correct response is: "Right here on LS by simply being me because this is where all the REAL women are! Not to mention the most beautiful, most intelligent, most intellectual, sexiest, most desirable, most fascinating and all-around most phenomenal women to be found anywhere! Hey, that's MY MM's line! Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 I'd like to rephrase this to "OW: If you have no problem with what you are doing, you shouldn't have to hide it..." Just my opinion though. I have integrity. I'm not afraid to talk about my decisions in life with anyone, or share where I met the man I love (his friend was dating my friend, and they set us up on a double date with them... it was awkward for a little while when they stopped dating & we didn't, but now we're all friends again) or anything else about our relationship. Come on OW, tell us where you met the man you love (or, if you don't love him, the man you're with). If you think that has to do with an agenda, what are you afraid of? Are you an OW? Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 I use "my" loosly, and means the same as "my friend," "my toe," etc. Good point. I think when we add the MM after "my", it negates the fact that he belongs to us therefore we are already admitting he will never be our H nor our property, yet he is our friend. Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 Met my MM on a dance floor on vacation. I think my answer is generic enough. Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 I don't think many women' date=' OW or not, would admit they approached a man first. Its like most of us see that as either desperation or as being predatory.[/quote'] You're probably right - I'm sure most women do worry about that. Though how someone can be seen as "desperate" when they're fighting off other guys hitting on them all the time I'm not sure, or why "predatory" is seen as a bad thing for women but OK for guys. It's probably different strokes, but I've never had a GUY disturbed by being hit on by a woman. They tend to get turned on by strong, take charge kind of women. And find it flattering, I suppose. sorry for the t/j, OP... Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 Met my MM on a dance floor on vacation. I think my answer is generic enough. Too generic! I want to know: salsa? lambada? tango? rock 'n roll? Come on WF, tell us the REAL stuff!! Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 Too generic! I want to know: salsa? lambada? tango? rock 'n roll? Come on WF, tell us the REAL stuff!! Well if you must know it was the Cha Cha Cha. Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 Too generic! I want to know: salsa? lambada? tango? rock 'n roll? Come on WF, tell us the REAL stuff!! But he called it the Cha Cha. Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Well if you must know it was the Cha Cha Cha. :D:D stylish! Most MM seem to favour the quickstep... :p:p Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Oh Lovey, you don't know the half of it! Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Hey OW-- I just noticed I have 814 posts and you have 418. Twilight Zone time... Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Oh Lovey, you don't know the half of it! :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: Link to post Share on other sites
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