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Timberlane Established Member

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I'm sure it wasn't embarrassing! You're just being humble or what?

 

No, seriously. I'm kind of bashful about sharing that sort of stuff on a thread. It was very, very nice to hear.

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I have tried pills in my past, speed and some of these ones you can buy on the internet like Xenedrine 8 n that sort of thing.

 

I just had this thing, where I truly thought to be happy and get a fella I had to be thin. I have tried everything because thats what I thought.

 

Seriosuly it has only been the last year,

 

(basically in Aug 06 I had my drink spiked in a nightclub nothing happened worse than that because I was with quite a few qork colleagues but it scared the life out of me & I did end up with a prolaped disc which isn't nice)

 

However since then, I kinda just think, well you only live once anything could happen to me at anytime do I really want to have not done things or been uphappy with my weight all that time (I was only 11st and am 5ft6). So I gave up smoking, went swimming 3-6times a week, and basically just made sure I was and do live life to the full.

 

Now I go to the gym, running, swimming, fencing, dancing classes, classes at the gym about 2-4times a week. I have a pretty good social life, job is going good.

 

Its since this happened I have now gotten fitter and so much happier with my body and self as a person. However I still do have blips, as to change a habit of about 12yrs of "thinking I must be thin" to "I am happy with what I have and being fit" will take afair amount of time to change forever.

 

But hearing that I look good and curves are a good thing sure does help, seriously I need to hear it sometimes to reaffirm what I am trying to believe in myself.

 

Hope that all made sense.

 

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LoisLane Established Member

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Hi there. I am about 5'6 and weigh 48kg. Is that or good? I have been wanting to put on a bit more as everyone says I am too thin. I don't see anything wrong with me but I would like bigger breasts and just a little bit more of flesh everywhere else!

plainoldjared Established Member

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No pics needed. Descriptions will do. :D

 

Ive got a description for you ladies ;) Im 6'2" and weigh 208. I was in waterpolo for 4 years and I still work out and swim regularly. Im an active guy I surf and skateboard. I have a nice lean cut body, strong and arms to pick you up with, strong legs to hold and carry you with and a nice bottom so you can rest your legs on ;)

 

my ex's favorite part on my body was my waist/stomach but I just have to say it gets much better as you go down haha

 

my favorite part on a woman is a 3way tie between, back lips and thighs mmhmm

coco_milkshake Established Member

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Ive got a description for you ladies ;) Im 6'2" and weigh 208. I was in waterpolo for 4 years and I still work out and swim regularly. Im an active guy I surf and skateboard. I have a nice lean cut body, strong and arms to pick you up with, strong legs to hold and carry you with and a nice bottom so you can rest your legs on ;)

 

my ex's favorite part on my body was my waist/stomach but I just have to say it gets much better as you go down haha

 

my favorite part on a woman is a 3way tie between, back lips and thighs mmhmm

 

Damn lol...I need to move to the States :bunny:

coco_milkshake Established Member

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I am 5'3" with a petite frame. I have 30DD/32D bust and a flat tummy. My legs are pretty toned and I have curvy hips and a bubble bum which I am very proud of. I need to lose a little bit of weight on my thighs and tighten the mucles there though.

 

My ex loved my butt and my tummy but there is more to me than that. :)

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I am 5'3" with a petite frame. I have 30DD/32D bust and a flat tummy. My legs are pretty toned and I have curvy hips and a bubble bum which I am very proud of. I need to lose a little bit of weight on my thighs and tighten the mucles there though.

 

My ex loved my butt and my tummy but there is more to me than that. :)

 

Your Avvie,

 

LOL... I read this and imagine Orlando Bloom in drag with a 30DD bust... :laugh:

 

Thats not pretty!

coco_milkshake Established Member

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Your Avvie,

 

LOL... I read this and imagine Orlando Bloom in drag with a 30DD bust... :laugh:

 

Thats not pretty!

 

LOL. :p I will put up my pic for a little while..Only for you Cobra.

plainoldjared Established Member

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I am 5'3" with a petite frame. I have 30DD/32D bust and a flat tummy. My legs are pretty toned and I have curvy hips and a bubble bum which I am very proud of. I need to lose a little bit of weight on my thighs and tighten the mucles there though.

 

My ex loved my butt and my tummy but there is more to me than that. :)

 

I too am a fan of the hips and bum, so I guess its a 5 way tie haha :)

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I too am a fan of the hips and bum, so I guess its a 5 way tie haha :)

 

Your description was very yummy. :bunny:

 

I am glad I have my curves cos I am quite petite. I am proud of my butt and I am glad my breasts are not small but not pure massive either. I would like to tone myself up. Note to self: join gym!!

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More hijacking going on here!!! lol

 

Points upwards ^^^^^^^^^ to my post!!! tee hee hee

 

wanted to thank you to all who have commented and know it has helped me alot.

coco_milkshake Established Member

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Sowwy!!!! :laugh:

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bigheartkindsoul Established Member

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I have tried pills in my past, speed and some of these ones you can buy on the internet like Xenedrine 8 n that sort of thing.

 

I just had this thing, where I truly thought to be happy and get a fella I had to be thin. I have tried everything because thats what I thought.

 

Seriosuly it has only been the last year,

 

(basically in Aug 06 I had my drink spiked in a nightclub nothing happened worse than that because I was with quite a few qork colleagues but it scared the life out of me & I did end up with a prolaped disc which isn't nice)

 

However since then, I kinda just think, well you only live once anything could happen to me at anytime do I really want to have not done things or been uphappy with my weight all that time (I was only 11st and am 5ft6). So I gave up smoking, went swimming 3-6times a week, and basically just made sure I was and do live life to the full.

 

Now I go to the gym, running, swimming, fencing, dancing classes, classes at the gym about 2-4times a week. I have a pretty good social life, job is going good.

 

Its since this happened I have now gotten fitter and so much happier with my body and self as a person. However I still do have blips, as to change a habit of about 12yrs of "thinking I must be thin" to "I am happy with what I have and being fit" will take afair amount of time to change forever.

 

But hearing that I look good and curves are a good thing sure does help, seriously I need to hear it sometimes to reaffirm what I am trying to believe in myself.

 

Hope that all made sense.

 

x

 

Thats ok I was just jesting. ;)

 

But to be serious from the problems I have had about my figure and how long it has taken to be happy & comfortable with ones self,

Gals don't worry, if you are healthy and happy in yourself do not believe that you won't get a fella or get looked at cause this just is not the case.

 

Guys seem to like that we come in all shapes and sizes and what one dislikes another will like.

 

:D

plainoldjared Established Member

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More hijacking going on here!!! lol

 

Points upwards ^^^^^^^^^ to my post!!! tee hee hee

 

wanted to thank you to all who have commented and know it has helped me alot.

 

Thank you too bigheartkindsoul, you're a very insightful woman and beautiful too :)

 

Thanks for your good advice ;)

troutie jr Established Member

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I am 5'3" with a petite frame. I have 30DD/32D bust and a flat tummy. My legs are pretty toned and I have curvy hips and a bubble bum which I am very proud of. I need to lose a little bit of weight on my thighs and tighten the mucles there though.

 

My ex loved my butt and my tummy but there is more to me than that. :)

 

I'm a leg and bum Man myself. Nothing is more sensual than looking at the backside of a woman's curves ;)

EnigmaXOXO Established Member

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I'm a size 0 - 2 Canadian, which is size 0 or less American. I've been described as having the classic hourglass figure. I have no issues with it.

 

Holy cow, Trialbyfire!

 

Isn’t a size “0” (or less) like ............ Invisible (???) :eek:

 

Maybe that last dress size you lost explains why your Avatar has suddenly disappeared. :confused:

Cobra_X30

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Thats ok I was just jesting. ;)

 

But to be serious from the problems I have had about my figure and how long it has taken to be happy & comfortable with ones self,

Gals don't worry, if you are healthy and happy in yourself do not believe that you won't get a fella or get looked at cause this just is not the case.

 

Guys seem to like that we come in all shapes and sizes and what one dislikes another will like.

 

:D

 

BHKS, When your happy with yourself, and it seems that you are (And should be), you will attract men that will be happy with you also.

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bigheartkindsoul Established Member

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Thank you too bigheartkindsoul, you're a very insightful woman and beautiful too :)

 

Thanks for your good advice ;)

 

 

Aww thank you, one feels good. And same goes in return hot stuff!!! ;)

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Aww thank you, one feels good. And same goes in return hot stuff!!! ;)

 

isnt it great how wonderful you feel after getting out of a crappy relationship and realizing there are so many amazing people out there...

 

I cant remember the last time I smiled so big from a sweet compliment...

 

life is looking up

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bigheartkindsoul Established Member

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isnt it great how wonderful you feel after getting out of a crappy relationship and realizing there are so many amazing people out there...

 

I cant remember the last time I smiled so big from a sweet compliment...

 

life is looking up

 

Yeah me too :D really wishing you were nearer so we could go for a drink at least...ah hum, never mind!

 

If you fancy helping out for my future ref with guys>>>>>>>>>

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1386468#post1386468

 

Now your input I would love to read....mwah

plainoldjared Established Member

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Yeah me too :D really wishing you were nearer so we could go for a drink at least...ah hum, never mind!

 

If you fancy helping out for my future ref with guys>>>>>>>>>

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1386468#post1386468

 

Now your input I would love to read....mwah

 

I love answering questions haha makes me feel noticed, be back shortly with that response

 

Oh and trust me I would have asked for a meeting of the minds with you the day before yesterday if only we were closer in proximity...

 

Ah well, I'll just have to keep sighing my little butt off and getting great feed back...

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I can see the page and all I can say BHKS is that your ex needs his head as well as his eyes tested. You are stunning!!!!

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