Questions for the guys?

Ok these do not relate to anything specific just wanna know for future reference.

With online dating, is it ok for a woman to come to you first or do you prefer to chase and pursue?

When out on first meeting do you like women that can hold there own, in a conversation, can wait happily in a bar for your meeting, drive there in her own car, will leave when she is ready to leave?

After first meeting, if you like the guy should you get in touch? I have sent a text b4 saying I had a really nice time or in response to them saying they had a nice time and would I like to go out again, said yes that would be nice - only to never here from them again???

Should girls act like a prize?

Do you prefer the girl to be full on with what she wants or less so, more reserved and just happy to go with the flow?

Do you like girls to have their own lives and hobbies so she doesn't have all the time in the world to see you and can only see you when it fits in with what she has/needs/wants to do?

On a first meeting, light conversations only? Also if a guy starts asking about your last relationship should this be taken that he has recently been stung and still getting over it?

Sex, how quickly? We all know you'd love it first date because that is how you are built, but to give the correct impression with a guy you do like and would like to see more off, and do not wanting him thinking you are a slapper (I love sex have had ONS but am no slapper) just how the dating game is right????

I am sure I will have more in time!!

With online dating, is it ok for a woman to come to you first or do you prefer to chase and pursue?

I like both. Someone has to say hi.

When out on first meeting do you like women that can hold there own, in a conversation, can wait happily in a bar for your meeting, drive there in her own car, will leave when she is ready to leave?

No problem with me. Been there done that.

After first meeting, if you like the guy should you get in touch? I have sent a text b4 saying I had a really nice time or in response to them saying they had a nice time and would I like to go out again, said yes that would be nice - only to never here from them again???

Some guys like that, I'm the one to initiate contact; it would be nice to get a "thank you" and lets do it again. I would not contact and keep it at thank you, have a good life if I didn't enjoy the first meeting.

Should girls act like a prize?

Sometimes but don't put yourself on to high of a pedestal.

Do you prefer the girl to be full on with what she wants or less so, more reserved and just happy to go with the flow?

Do you like girls to have their own lives and hobbies so she doesn't have all the time in the world to see you and can only see you when it fits in with what she has/needs/wants to do?

Yes and no, not to clingy and not to independent. I'm more into a woman who has a life versus clingy and none.

On a first meeting, light conversations only? Also if a guy starts asking about your last relationship should this be taken that he has recently been stung and still getting over it?

1st meeting and talking about past relationships reminds me of not getting over the ex and the date was not that interesting.

Sex, how quickly? We all know you'd love it first date because that is how you are built, but to give the correct impression with a guy you do like and would like to see more off, and do not wanting him thinking you are a slapper (I love sex have had ONS but am no slapper) just how the dating game is right????

No real time frame, in general for me it was at least a spend the night after the 3rd date.

With online dating, is it ok for a woman to come to you first or do you prefer to chase and pursue?

yes its ok but it shouldn't be too strong or sound desperate.

When out on first meeting do you like women that can hold there own, in a conversation, can wait happily in a bar for your meeting, drive there in her own car, will leave when she is ready to leave?

yup , confidence and able to have a good conversation is important . driving car and other such stuff is not relevant. getting hammered at the bar on the 1st date is another thing , on for some , off for others.

After first meeting, if you like the guy should you get in touch? I have sent a text b4 saying I had a really nice time or in response to them saying they had a nice time and would I like to go out again, said yes that would be nice - only to never here from them again???

yes you should . whether to do it right after the first date or after a few days is what is usually the issue. its different for different people but i think you can give it a rest for a day or two and then contact again and fix up future dates.

Should girls act like a prize?

if they are acting out or being something they aren't , they are a no for me. be natural. acting special and proud doesn't get points for me.

Do you prefer the girl to be full on with what she wants or less so, more reserved and just happy to go with the flow?

like i said , be natural .

On a first meeting, light conversations only? Also if a guy starts asking about your last relationship should this be taken that he has recently been stung and still getting over it?

i prefer to keep it light on first dates. relationship talks are best left for laters. if he is talking of relationships , take it on face value. could be he is stung ( which you will know if he tells you the timeline ) or he considers it just a point of conversation and nothing more . also ,many guys do this expecting you too will tell about your relationship in return to find out more about you.

Sex, how quickly? We all know you'd love it first date because that is how you are built, but to give the correct impression with a guy you do like and would like to see more off, and do not wanting him thinking you are a slapper (I love sex have had ONS but am no slapper) just how the dating game is right????

depends on the person , personality and how comfortable things are moving but on the first date , its a no for me. desperate and not serious is what i get from first date hookups.

but if the attraction is amazing and things are hot , it will happen

With online dating, is it ok for a woman to come to you first or do you prefer to chase and pursue?

 

Don't matter to me. If you're interested in someone who doesn't know you exist, you should initiate contact.

 

When out on first meeting do you like women that can hold there own, in a conversation, can wait happily in a bar for your meeting, drive there in her own car, will leave when she is ready to leave?

 

I like women with big b00bs.

 

After first meeting, if you like the guy should you get in touch?

 

I don't date guys.

 

Should girls act like a prize?

 

If she does, she doesn't get a second date.

 

Do you prefer the girl to be full on with what she wants or less so, more reserved and just happy to go with the flow?

 

Don't matter. I naturally end up in the drivers seat on a date, so this issue isn't relevant.

 

Do you like girls to have their own lives and hobbies so she doesn't have all the time in the world to see you and can only see you when it fits in with what she has/needs/wants to do?

 

Women who have no interests or hobbies are boring as hell. If your best talent is getting your nails done, then you're better off dating a mannequin.

 

On a first meeting, light conversations only?

 

It usually turns into light flirting. Light conversation is too boring.

 

Also if a guy starts asking about your last relationship should this be taken that he has recently been stung and still getting over it?

 

If a guy is asking about your last relationship, he's making sure that there's no ex-bf that will interfere with the long term relationship that he's currently forming with you.

 

Sex, how quickly?

 

Depends on the woman. If she's boring but hot as hell, as soon as possible. If she's actually interesting, I'd rather wait a few days - it builds the attraction

Ok these are open questions, just trying to find out what is the best way forward in the dating arena.

Sensible answers from dating men would be appriciated, thank you

xxxx

And for those genuine answers I thank you kindly

Ok these do not relate to anything specific just wanna know for future reference.

 

With online dating, is it ok for a woman to come to you first or do you prefer to chase and pursue?

I dont mind if she asks me first, however, I wont waste time if Im interested...

When out on first meeting do you like women that can hold there own, in a conversation, can wait happily in a bar for your meeting, drive there in her own car, will leave when she is ready to leave?

Absolutely turns me on when a woman can hold her own, I dont want to feel like Im boring her so an active participant is always appreciated. Also, If she wants to leave thats fine but Im not shy and will ask her to stay, if she says yes GREAT if she says no then I'll understand and get a great kiss

After first meeting, if you like the guy should you get in touch? I have sent a text b4 saying I had a really nice time or in response to them saying they had a nice time and would I like to go out again, said yes that would be nice - only to never here from them again???

Yes, let him know you had a great time. If he texts back with "me too lets do it again" respond with a date and time or with "i would like that" if he doesnt respond again that just means he didnt have the cajones to say "I had a nice time I think we should be friends good luck in the dating world"

Should girls act like a prize?

A woman should be confident and know that she is a prize, however, its not attractive if you are overly confident or constantly pointing out that you are a prize. We can tell right away whether you mean it or are trying to convince us...

Do you prefer the girl to be full on with what she wants or less so, more reserved and just happy to go with the flow?

I like a girl that knows what she wants and goes for it, but I dont like being pushed either, this is a tricky one... I suppose it depends on the situation, a nice healthy balance

Do you like girls to have their own lives and hobbies so she doesn't have all the time in the world to see you and can only see you when it fits in with what she has/needs/wants to do?

I know its important to have friends and interests and individual identities however, I dont want to feel like Im another one of her hobbies... I myself am not demanding however if I have a company dinner and its on her girls night out I'd appreciate being placed above for this particular occasion. I would do the same

On a first meeting, light conversations only? Also if a guy starts asking about your last relationship should this be taken that he has recently been stung and still getting over it?

Yes, light and simple first date. If you can have fun together then you can test the serious stuff later. Past relationships shouldnt be discussed immediately I agree with your statement that it means he's getting over a recent sting.

Sex, how quickly? We all know you'd love it first date because that is how you are built, but to give the correct impression with a guy you do like and would like to see more off, and do not wanting him thinking you are a slapper (I love sex have had ONS but am no slapper) just how the dating game is right?????

Haha sex too soon is bad in my opinion, it changes the dynamic from getting to know eachother to how can I get her to do that again. If I know you better then I'll know what you like and we'll both feel more comfortable behind closed doors... If we have sex too soon I might think you've done this recently with another. Then again, you never know you could have an amazing first date talk for hours into the night and just click... I guess this is another one thats hard to answer

Thanks hun for those, very useful.