Heidi2 Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 I've had this one friend X for a good 10 years now.. We went through middle & high school together. Now, upon being faced in the quote on quote real world.. we've been able to still keep in contact & hang-out every so often.. since we both in the same location,etc. Well, here's the thing.. He's a guy & I'm a girl. Ok, fine. The thing is we spent a lot of one-on-one time together this past summer '02.. talking.. and doing fun stuff( boardwalks, amusement parks, NYC trips, etc). And, in a recent im we had, the question came up on both ends: 'how do you consider this friendship to be', etc. And, well we both answered.... and stuff sort of came out.. good and yet maybe too much @ once... Ever since this convo. maybe 2 weeks or so ago.. things really h/n been the same.. We both still talk and all. But the fact of the matter is... we both.. mainly him seems to be hesitant of what to say.. & how to say it.. Is this b/c he's in a confused state of mind right now.. or is it b/c we both are.. and should take some steps back.. or should we 'both' sit down and talk things through?? Very confused.... about this whole matter. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted May 9, 2003 Share Posted May 9, 2003 Transitioning a friendship into a romance, or preserving a friendship once disclosures are made is always awkward and sometimes rough. But if the two of you are true friends, it will all work out with time. Yes, do have a talk...but don't talk it to death. Just let things happen the way they will. If it's supposed to be, it will be. Link to post Share on other sites
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