WiseOne Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1257302#post1257302 Theres The Orginal Post To Know The Full Story. Is something wrong with me.Check this out. I ended things with my ex because i felt that we needed to be single because she wasnt sure if she still loved her ex. WHY AM I NOT HURTING? I Still wanna be with my ex, but im not hurting and im not really affected by this, i just want to be with her. But whats really weird i still can be friends with her. Is It Because...........................? Im Not In Love? An Illusion of Love! Am I Confindent So I Feel That One Day We Will Get BackTogether? Is It Because I Been Broken Hearted Before, so im not hurting this time? Is It Because im still getting Bf Treatment? Am I Over Her Already? Like i said i feel that i love her, but i dont have any signs of heartbreak just anger, and i dont have a problem being her friend, so whats wrong?
Author WiseOne Posted July 22, 2007 Author Posted July 22, 2007 I Also find my self throwing my ex at her ex Bf, i tell her all the time if u that crazy over him then just go back to him. Today i hung up on her face because im sick and tired of her bad attitude and it didnt start until he came back, so i told her to just go back with him. And even though i keep throwing her at her ex she wont go back so i dunno.
Chinook Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I find your posts very hard to read because they are all bolded. If you don't feel bad, then maybe you didn't love her. If she won't make a decision then you have to IMHO. I dunno, at 17 I didn't want all this drama in my life you know..? Doesn't she have better things to do than obsess over an ex..? (says me who obsesses over the ex all fckin day)
Author WiseOne Posted July 22, 2007 Author Posted July 22, 2007 Thank You Chinook, i dont know whats going on i just always find myself throwing my ex at her ex. I Mean at first i asked her to choose over me and her ex she choose me, and then she changed her mind and said she dont know who she wants. But i dont care for somereason i just want her back, but i dont think im in love, or am i just holding things inside.
Chinook Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 and then she changed her mind and said she dont know who she wants. But i dont care for somereason i just want her back, but i dont think im in love, or am i just holding things inside. Um, it could just be infatuation you know. I don't know for sure whether you're in love with her. But tell you one thing, you guys are too young to have all this drama going on you know..? If she changed her mind and went with the ex, then I guess you have to go with that and just move on. Easier said than done I know but there are plenty of pretty girls out there who don't have these issues!
Author WiseOne Posted July 23, 2007 Author Posted July 23, 2007 Well she didnt choose her ex, she said shed rathe be single until she can choose who she wants to be with, even though im trynna choose for her, she just wont go with him. But its all good though
Chinook Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 Hmm, sounds to me like she's trynna string you both along! Try to be patient with her - young girls have all those hormones to deal with, she'll be all over the place, she'll sort out how she feels sooner or later. Women don't tend to dwell on decision-making for too long. They assess the situ, weigh up everything, then they take the risk and do the necessary thing to get things moving.
ruby_gloom Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 you know, chinook, i think i was more together when i was 17 than i am now. i'm serious. at that age, i had just started dating my exbf and when we had a few problems, i wouldn't give a sh.t. but fast-forward 3 years and omg. anyway, wiseone, dude--i think you are being passive-aggressive towards your exgf. when you are over someone, you are no longer affected by their actions (unless they are directed to you). that's not to say that you don't care, but it's just not the same. if you were really over her already, 1.) that would be weird and 2.) you wouldn't want her back and wouldn't care whether she went back to her ex or to the next bloke. you also would not be trying "to choose for her" because you wouldn't be involved anymore, yet you are. it seems to me that you are passive-aggressively purging your feelings instead of the more "normal" way, which is to sulk for a while. i think you really need to step away for the time being. if you are confident she will come back, then rest in that confidence and go about your business until that day comes. if and when it does, then you can choose whether you want to give her another go or if it's too late.
Author WiseOne Posted July 23, 2007 Author Posted July 23, 2007 Thanks guys for your advice. I want my ex back but that doenst mean that i feel that i need her back, thats why i been trying to make her decision for her lately, because i get tired of hearing how depressed she is, and her grades in school is falling, and im sick and tired of her having panic attacks, which leads to asthma attacks, and yes she does have real ones too, she has a highley depressive disorder, cant really pronounce the name.. All i know is in the words of John Cena, DA CHAMP IS HERE, so no matter what happens, i win regardless, ill find someone else, So To All The Women, "IF YOU WANT SOME..."COME GET SOME"
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