AGM8080 Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 my g/f and I been together for a year things are up and down. We fight about little things she always thinks Im going to cheat and I never have. We got into a fight the other day and she spit in my face. How should I handle this, how can I forgive her and move on I love her
LoveLace Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 What exactly did you say or do right before she spit in your face? It would take something pretty bad for me to do that to my BF. I think spitting in your face was probably out of line. Has she ever done anything such as this before? First of all, she should trust you, unless you give her good reasons not to. And if she has good reasons not to, she should break up with you. If she wants to stay with you, she has to learn to trust you and she has to control her anger. This behavior of hers hurts you, obviously, and you should tell her that. If she continues to be this way, that's treating you badly and she at least needs anger management or something...spitting on someone is totally unneseccary if you ask me.
Krytellan Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 We got into a fight the other day and she spit in my face. My kneejerk reaction is to tell you to run. My wife did this halfway through our relationship, and in hindsight it was absolutely representative of the mean bi*ch that she was. Is your gf a mean bi*ch?
LoveLace Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 My kneejerk reaction is to tell you to run. My wife did this halfway through our relationship, and in hindsight it was absolutely representative of the mean bi*ch that she was. Is your gf a mean bi*ch? I agree with this AGM, if she's capable of this, it's possible that her behavior can escalate to more violent measures in the future-- unless she changes which takes a lot of time and dedication on her part- or unless you get outta there which is probably the best route.
drake111 Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 If someone spits in your face thats a personal attack. You cant conclude or solve a problem by spitting in someone's face. You can do one of two things with this: 1)forgive her for attacking you like that and continue to try and come to a resolution to your problems. 2)break off the relationship if you feel you cant resolve the problems you two are having together.
Star Gazer Posted June 27, 2007 Posted June 27, 2007 If I ever spit in a guy's face, I hereby give him the right to punch me in the nose with a closed fist and walk away, never to be heard from again. Spitting in someone's face is quite possibly the biggest form of in-your-face (pun unintended) disrespect I can think of. Like K said, she sounds like an evil b*tch. I'd high tail it outta there, pronto.
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