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Having hair doesn't make the man.

not according to The Hair Club for Men :lmao:

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My hair is thinner on top than it used to be. So I've asked the girl who cuts my hair to start gradually leaving one side of my hair longer. I figure that way people won't notice when it has become a proper comb-over. She won't do it though. She laughs.

 

I'm thinking of going to someone else.

 

There are actually women out there who will love you regardless of what's going on with your hair. Not desperate women either, but women you'd be proud to even know, let alone make your sweetheart. Guys with the worst comb-overs you've ever seen have wives to go home to.

 

I completely agree Johan, unfortunately women are not as lucky! Can't imagine a man who would love me bald, with a beard, not even a desperate man!:D

 

PS. My husband must own a copy, and has memorized your guide to relationship success!

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You've got that backwards...

 

 

Now THAT'S funny!:lmao::lmao::lmao:

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Well my bf's father has no hair, he pretty much didnt have any by the age of 30. And it looks like his son takes after him. It doesnt really bother me, as long as he doesn't grow a beard to make up for it like his dad did. :sick:

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I don't have a problem with balding guys... I have a problem when they let one strand of hair on one side grow really long and comb it back on the top... now that looks ridiculous and tacky.

 

I am not crazy about shaving it all off....looks too 'wrestlers' eewwww.

 

The best is when it is cut extremely short... almost shaved but not quite... now that's sexy.

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Yes, very short, almost shaved IS sexy. Like a military style haircut. I like that kind of cut on a guy WITH hair, too.

 

Really, it's not about balding or not balding. It's about attitude. If some guy is going to freak out about losing his hair, then I think he's going to freak out as I age and get wrinkles or lose my figure.

 

For most men, balding is part of aging, too. No big deal to me.

 

A guy is sexy regardless of how much hair he has. So, guys, just be upfront about it, with a good attitude, and keep your hair short or shave it all off.

 

Just keep giving us lots of amazing sex and we'll never stop thinking you are a young stud.

:laugh:

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nicki, your post reminded me of men with laugh lines on the outside corner of their eyes.

 

*melts*

 

Men need some wear and tear on them. Otherwise they're just pretty boys.

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Oh, I love that! :love:

 

Those little lines and mixed in gray hairs ARE endearing....and sexy...they show a guy has lived a little.

 

*sigh* :love:

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Dating bald guy? Sure why not. I'd be way more turned off by something ridiculous that he did have control over, like wearing hoop earings.

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Dating bald guy? Sure why not. I'd be way more turned off by something ridiculous that he did have control over, like wearing hoop earings.

 

So you don't like the Mr. Clean look?:laugh:

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"So you don't like the Mr. Clean look?:laugh:"

 

 

Ha! No thank you.

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Well I'm not worried about it. I'm not losing my hair, but even if I were, by the time I did go bald, I'd be looking like Stone Cold or the Hulkster.

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I have been losing my hair since 9th grade. I now have it shaved with level 2 on top and level one on sides. Its awsome.

 

I got chided and called a liar for liking women with lines. I do like the lines on a womans face. I like the maturity I guess

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I would date balding guy, yes. And the more forehead that shows the smarter you look.

 

Someone said, "I'm not losing hair, I'm getting head." If you've heard that before, I apologize.

 

:lmao::lmao:

 

i found that really funny, for some reason.

 

anyway, i'm going to say maybe.

 

in general, i like guys with long, shaggy hair. maybe it's just an age/phase thing, but guys with shaggy hair are yum, while guys with no hair . . . uhm . . .

 

maybe. maybe not. the light bouncing off that might be too bright. ahhh.

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nicki, your post reminded me of men with laugh lines on the outside corner of their eyes.

 

*melts*

 

Men need some wear and tear on them. Otherwise they're just pretty boys.

 

My wife describes me as , "ruggedly good looking" and that's because I am decidedly weathered with character lines and crowsfeet aplenty. Its a product of years in outdoor occupations in the past, and life in general.

 

As for the hair issue, she loves mine. There's less of it than there used to be but what's left is mostly silver and grey.

 

Glad to know she's not the only one not particularly attracted to "pretty boys!"

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My wife describes me as , "ruggedly good looking" and that's because I am decidedly weathered with character lines and crowsfeet aplenty. Its a product of years in outdoor occupations in the past, and life in general.

 

As for the hair issue, she loves mine. There's less of it than there used to be but what's left is mostly silver and grey.

 

Glad to know she's not the only one not particularly attracted to "pretty boys!"

You'll find that many of us women like men who show some of their character on their faces whether humour or just plain good living. :love:

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Its not easy turning 33. As of today Im as old as Jesus ever got. That creeps me out for some reason (and he never lost any hair).

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Its not easy turning 33. As of today Im as old as Jesus ever got. That creeps me out for some reason (and he never lost any hair).

Jesus was in The Hair Club for Men

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Hey, burning. We all have a cross to bear. Happy birthday!

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With all that messy hair, you don't know if he sported a comb-over.

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Its not easy turning 33. As of today Im as old as Jesus ever got. That creeps me out for some reason (and he never lost any hair).

 

I started losing my hair at 23.

 

I used to think it was a PTSD reaction from over 20 straight months in combat zones (Vietnam and the Korean DMZ).

 

Then I decided it was a stress reaction from marrying the ex at age 23.

 

Now I'm of a mind that it's simple male pattern baldness which, by the way, means having a high level of testosterone.

 

Whatever it was/is, I'm 60 and I still have hair!

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I won't worry. After this pysical body die I will go to heaven, then no aging there.:love:

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I started losing my hair at 23.

 

I used to think it was a PTSD reaction from over 20 straight months in combat zones (Vietnam and the Korean DMZ).

 

Then I decided it was a stress reaction from marrying the ex at age 23.

 

Now I'm of a mind that it's simple male pattern baldness which, by the way, means having a high level of testosterone.

 

Whatever it was/is, I'm 60 and I still have hair!

I think I was around 26 or 27 when I first noticed it. It seems to hit a lot of us guys in our twenties

 

Im not sure the stress is a factor, because I believe its all related to di-hydro-testosterone.

 

I didnt't know about you tour in Vietnam. Thanks for your service C-L

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I think I was around 26 or 27 when I first noticed it. It seems to hit a lot of us guys in our twenties

i dated a woman once who had lost two-thirds of her hair due to alopecia. she wore wigs made out of human hair that cost $3,000 per pop.

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i dated a woman once who had lost two-thirds of her hair due to alopecia. she wore wigs made out of human hair that cost $3,000 per pop.

women with hair loss should qualify for hair trasnplantation covered by health insurance. most health insurance doesnt cover it, but i think they should since its the result of a disease.

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