essequamvideri Posted June 9, 2007 Posted June 9, 2007 Hello All, I have been a member at a gym in my town for about 4 months now, and one of the girls that works at the front counter has really caught my eye, lets call her Amy. Amy is really cute and has a pleasant personality, smiles a lot etc. I find myself buying the overpriced energy drinks there from her just so I have an excuse to talk with her. I have noticed that she looks at me occasionally when she is making her rounds in the gym, but im not sure if im reading into that too much etc. Here's the thing, aside from polite conversation, I am so less than proficient in perhaps pushing it to the next level (heck, she doesnt even know my name that I am aware of) and figuring out ways to get to know her better/introduce myself without saying something stupid, making an idiot out of myself and having my face get beet red (i get embarrassed easily) because I am nervous. I think she is in my "league", and I am not ugly per say but just lack a lot of confidence. Any advice on how to get to know her better, conversation starters etc. to lead up to eventually asking her out? I'm just not sure how to do that without feeling like im getting too personal or pushy. My other fear is that when / if I ask her out and if she said "no", then I would have to see her everyday at the gym and I would feel like a moron. Any advice would be greatly appreciated....Thanks!!!!
norajane Posted June 9, 2007 Posted June 9, 2007 When you are buying an overpriced energy drink from her, ask her if you can buy her one of those overpriced energy drinks after she gets off work.
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