Woggle Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 1.I hate how she sat on her ass at home all day while I worked and went to school but called me lazy if I wanted to have a beer with the guys once in a while 2.I hated how she complained about us living in a bad neighborhood constantly but then complained about how bored she was when we moved to a nice area. 3. I hated how nothing was ever her fault. It was my fault that she cheated, smashed my stuff, and did anything.
Lizzie60 Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 My first ex was: 1) greedy 2) no back bone 3) too possessive My last one was: 1) controlling 2) a bit too show-off 3) possessive
justice Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 1. I hated it when the ex had no back bone where his mummy was concerned 2. I hated always being the first one to initiate sex 3. Hated, hated and hated the skid marks in his shorts 4. I can't really think of one good thing to say after having been married to the man nearly six years before divorcing his sorry as$
norajane Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 I'll hold off on the bitterness... ...so otherwise: 1. He shut off the cable on his TV years ago and doesn't watch television 2. Change is a foreign concept to him...he wouldn't move into the city and insisted on living in the fricking suburb where he grew up; he wouldn't go on vacation anywhere that he couldn't scuba dive, so he wouldn't go to Europe with me; it took ages for him to get rid these appalling blue shorts he used to wear all the time... 3. He didn't mind spending money on bigger things, but he'd drive me nuts with the small stuff. We were in Cancun once for a few days before we headed to Cozumel. Every cab ride we took in Cancun, he'd ask the driver how much it would cost to get from our hotel to the dock where we'd need to catch the ferry - he didn't want to get overcharged by an opportunistic cab driver. Like who the hell cares if it's 20 or 25 dollars when we were already spending so much for the trip itself??? Or he'd insist on fixing the furnace himself even though it took two (cold) days, instead of paying for a furnace guy to come out.
Storyrider Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 I honestly don't hate anything about him, but here are three trivial things that rub me the wrong way... --He doesn't pay any attention to pop culture, so many of my jokes which might involve references to songs or TV or movies just draw a complete blank with him. In general, our senses of humor are somewhat mismatched. Of course, if I happened to come up with a joke about Thomas Aquinas, he would get it immediately. --He likes to wear his clothes until they are completely worn out, especially socks. All his socks have holes in them, and he won't throw them out. Most of the other worn out stuff he only wears at home, not out in public, but the holy socks he will even wear to the airport and then when they make him take his shoes off--viola! Along those lines, he also likes to wait for a haircut until he has turned from precise to shaggy. And he likes to let his eyebrows grow to outrageous Andy Rooney lengths before trimming them. But he is getting better about asking the barber to trim them. --He sings off key and loudly in church. The more off key he is, the louder he sings. I have to sing if I'm there, either to guide him back to the tune or to drown him out, even if it is a song about Jesus. I'd rather commit herecy than listen to him sing.
Carbine Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 1) The way he could only think in terms of 'good/bad/right/wrong' etc. And try and force me to do the same 2) The way he'd never question anything his mother said and would always do what she advised him to do no matter what 3) The way he'd treat his dog too well, stupid thing was spoiled rotten and in comparison I got treated like ****
sb129 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 I am really glad that guy is your ex Carbine. How you doing anyway?
Zona76 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 EX: Lies. He doesn't think he lies. In fact his opinion is he's explaining a different way. And each time he tells it, the story becomes more and more grandeur. AND those smelly Cigars! Spouse(second husband): I wish he'd stop smoking. Or at least cut back. I'm worried. He knows I hate it. *sigh*
sb129 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 My ex was a pathological liar! And he didn't think he lied either. Hello? He had an AFFAIR with me, and says he never lied to his wife, justnever told the truth. he lied to everyone!
littlekitty Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 Ok there's nothing I HATE about Spidy, but there are a few things that annoy me! Now I just have to pick three..... 1) The sniffing tick. He has a tick, he sniffs. Lots! *sniff* *sniff* *big sniff* *sniff* *sniff* Aghhhhh!! I'm taking him to a hypnotherapist. It drives me nuts sometimes. And sometimes the sniffs are so loud and strong that they wake me up from sleep!!! 2) He likes to talk. I mean really likes to talk. Through every tv program, every movie I'm watching. Like he's talking, asking me questions about what I think is the reason for 'this' happening in the movie, and he's actually talking over the bit where they're explaining it!!!! So I can't tell him, because just missed it too. How many things have I watched where I missed the crucial info or end because he was talking......?!!! 3) He fidgets. It's related to the sniffing tick I think. In the car, in bed, on the sofa. He can not sit still. He's constantly moving, adjusting, wriggling, scratching, jiggling!! All the god damn time! He can not sit still. I try snuggle up in close and watch a movie (if I can hear the bloody thing over his talking...!! ) but I give up after 5 minutes because I'm constantly being shifted around and jiggled by his moving!! He ends up in the spare room quite regularly because he's having a fidgety night. He does the *sniff* *scratch* *figet* routine. He knows it's annoying bless him, so off he goes so I can get some sleep.
Woggle Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 There is nothing I hate about my curent wife but there are some minor annoyances. 1.She wears this dark red lipstick that gets over everything. I find cups in the sink with lispstick marks on it and sometimes I end up wearing it after kissing her. It looks good but it sure is messy 2.When she takes a shower she nearly floods the bathroom. What the hell is she doing in there? 3. She sings along to songs in the car and sometimes people look at us funny in traffic.
littlekitty Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 There is nothing I hate about my curent wife but there are some minor annoyances. 1.She wears this dark red lipstick that gets over everything. I find cups in the sink with lispstick marks on it and sometimes I end up wearing it after kissing her. It looks good but it sure is messy 2.When she takes a shower she nearly floods the bathroom. What the hell is she doing in there? 3. She sings along to songs in the car and sometimes people look at us funny in traffic. Ahhh woggle. That's really cute!!
whichwayisup Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 2.When she takes a shower she nearly floods the bathroom. What the hell is she doing in there? I know! I know! I know!! *is there a shower massager?*
Zona76 Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 ha ha ha ha Will you guys listen to what you are writing? "There's nothing I hate about my wife, girlfriend, husband, boyfriend... BUT..." And then it all spills. Do we all feel open enough to take this back to our significant other and get their honest opinion of what they dislike about us? Face it! We all think we're perfect.
IpAncA Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 Do we all feel open enough to take this back to our significant other and get their honest opinion of what they dislike about us? Face it! We all think we're perfect. Ah, he already knows. We had the "you think your so perfect, well let me tell you" discussion.
JadeStar Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 I'm going to list just one thing, because any other things probably fall under that category anyway. He is PA to the max!
Woggle Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 There is nothing that I hate about her but we all have our little quirks and those are some of hers. None of us perfect and I am sure I have my annoyances but the good certainly outweighs the bad.
Touche Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 There is nothing that I hate about her but we all have our little quirks and those are some of hers. None of us perfect and I am sure I have my annoyances but the good certainly outweighs the bad. Yes, I could have said the same thing about my H. And that's the key here..that the good should outweigh the bad. If it's the other way around, why bother?
melodymatters Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 The Ex : 1) At 47 his family still ran his life like he was 5 2) He never stuck up for me, people could say ****ty things about me but god forbid he ever rocked the boat. 3) He couldn't and still can't keep a job
Kwo-ne'-she Posted May 13, 2007 Posted May 13, 2007 Which ex? Ok, the one I just broke up with.... 1. that he wasn't more macho 2. he had no backbone against HIS ex 3. he didn't love me enough
littlekitty Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 ha ha ha ha Will you guys listen to what you are writing? "There's nothing I hate about my wife, girlfriend, husband, boyfriend... BUT..." And then it all spills. Do we all feel open enough to take this back to our significant other and get their honest opinion of what they dislike about us? Face it! We all think we're perfect. I told him about this thread and he was able to name all three things I listed!! And he couldn't come up with anything really annoying about me....!! So yes... I must be perfect!!!
Citizen Erased Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 1. We always have to work by his schedule 2. He never lets me choose the cd in the car. 3. I cant think of anything else
Author a4a Posted May 14, 2007 Author Posted May 14, 2007 mine says I think everything is too urgent....... yeah, like paying bills on time, I am funny that way. He has nothing else to complain about me.
amaysngrace Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 Three things I hate about my ex: That he stopped by on Saturday so my kids would sign a Mother's Day card for his wife but won't stop by any other time to see them. That when our kids go to his house for visits he hooks them up with PlayStation and Internet instead of playing with them in the yard. That for over three months he paid not a dime of Child Support for them but smoked cigarettes and chewed tobacco daily and wouldn't even grab them a gallon of milk at the store.
allina Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 I don't HATE anything about my SO but these are things that are sort of annoying; He eats a lot of yogurt and leaves empty yogurt cups and spoons all over the place. He's a really clean and neat guy and he picks up after himself, everything but the stupid yogurt things, wtf!? In the mornings when he has to be up way before me, he'll wake up and just sit on the middle of the bed and stare at the wall for like 10 minutes. If he has to get up I wish he'd just get up so i could stretch out already. He hardly ever wears normal white socks. All his socks are black, or weird pattern or old man socks. Why can't he just get a big pack of normal white socks?
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