alphamale Posted May 5, 2007 Posted May 5, 2007 can anyone tell me if a guy is staring at you all the time when he doesn't think your looking, does this mean anything? maybe some of your lunch is on your face?....no, just kidding. he probably likes you. people tend to look at things they like and avoid looking at things they don't like. its just human nature.
Maria33 Posted May 5, 2007 Posted May 5, 2007 Here's some that I've noticed with me: Constant looking. You look at him, he looks away. Then when you look away he looks at you. (Guys need to work on this). Stands around you so you know he's there. Might even follow you in a non-stalking way. (Yeah that makes sense.) Smiles a lot Tries talking to you and keeps on talking to you. SHOWS off. Laughs at your jokes even if their stupid. Looks like he wants to talk to you but doesn't. Blushes! <----that's my favorite one. Hard to hide. quote] Okay, now what? I've had some of these things happen with a guy I would be interested in. But, if he doesn't come and talk to me, what should I do? I never know if I should go over to them or not. I'm so bashful, it's hard to do that.
Author hope1975 Posted May 5, 2007 Author Posted May 5, 2007 What about this. What if he doesn't look at you at all...I mean if your talking to him and he won't look you in the eye. But you still feel like he might be looking when your not.? hhmmm EXACTLY what I mean Lovelace ...you can feel him looking at you constantly, but can't catch him
Author hope1975 Posted May 5, 2007 Author Posted May 5, 2007 now what? I've had some of these things happen with a guy I would be interested in. But, if he doesn't come and talk to me, what should I do? I never know if I should go over to them or not. I'm so bashful, it's hard to do that. yeah...what now??? and heres another one....what happens if you get all of the above & then he calls you up and talks non stop about someone else?? interested in you & trying to make you jealous? or not interested & just a naturally flitatious guy? hmmmm......
Prise Posted May 5, 2007 Posted May 5, 2007 can anyone tell me if a guy is staring at you all the time when he doesn't think your looking, does this mean anything? Either he's trying to ascertain if you are someone with whom he is vaguely familiar with, or he finds you attractive. 99% of the time, it's the latter.
Author hope1975 Posted May 5, 2007 Author Posted May 5, 2007 Either he's trying to ascertain if you are someone with whom he is vaguely familiar with, or he finds you attractive. 99% of the time, it's the latter. ohhh how I wish my situation was that simple
LN99 Posted May 6, 2007 Posted May 6, 2007 A guy can show he is interested in many different ways. Most of the time staring is the most common one. I mean why would he be staring at someone he does not find attractive? Another one is Smiling at you while staring or looking down occasionally. Also, if the guy mirrors you or copies what you say or do to some extent, its said thats a sign of attraction. Another is any physical contact. Lingering touches or brushing up against you. (I know of a guy who does all of these things with me, but he is currently in a relationship.) The thing about all this though is it can be misleading. A guy might find you attractive whether or not he is interested or with another girl. But, it doesn't always mean he is gonna act on it or actually pursue anything w/ you. For him, you may just be eye candy. At least this is how my guy friend explained how some guys are. Some guys do try to make a woman jealous by mentioning another girl, but most are pretty straight forward. If he does try the jealous tactic, it could be just to gauge your reaction to figure out if effects you or not. If he sees that it does, then he figures that maybe he has a shot. Otherwise, he could honestly just see you as a friend and therefore does not realize that this talk about another girl is making you jealous. Point is, if you want to know if he is attracted to you, you could go out on a limb and ask. Or a more subtle way is to recipricate his actions and try flirting techniques to see how he responds.
Author hope1975 Posted May 6, 2007 Author Posted May 6, 2007 Thanks LN99 that's some of the best advice I've had so far I do sometimes flirt back then he flirts, theres some touching, long looks, staring etc...but nothing happens. He definately sees me as a friend but also knows how I feel, so mentioning another girl is like he's deliberately trying to make me jealous. I'm really confused as to why he acts this way if he doesn't want anything & also because he knows how I feel!! very confusing situation
tonyxlin Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 When I like a girl (Im a guy), I give them eye contact and I try to talk to them as much as I can and I look into their eyes when I talk to them
runner Posted June 11, 2007 Posted June 11, 2007 When I like a girl (Im a guy), I give them eye contact and I try to talk to them as much as I can and I look into their eyes when I talk to them on the other hand, I (a guy) also act this way around girls i'm not necessarily attracted to - also try to be humourous and ask questions of interest. i'm assuming i'm not the only guy like this so the above comment might not be a good way to judge things. /cheers
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