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Is it true that betrayal sometimes improves the marriage?

Andy L

By Andy L
in Marriage and Life Partnerships

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2sunny Established Member

2sunny

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betrayal killed my 20 year marriage... :(

 

to think that it would help is silly to me.

i forgave him once... the second time - we never even had

a conversation about it. i just changed the locks and told him i

knew about the gal and don't bother coming home.

 

i felt that i deserved better than that betrayal - as he was

supposed to be the one person who was good to me... :(

 

it feels like freedom to not worry and wonder anymore...

Trialbyfire Established Member

Trialbyfire

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Well..when I asked the question of how does he feel about it...Ya...I know it has to be difficult for him...but I was more curious as to him worrying about how you might react.

 

The fact that you give him no reason to be fearful, especially after he is known to be unfaithful, says alot about you. I don't think he truly knows how lucky he is.

Agreed. I sincerely doubt I would be so merciful.

 

While I wouldn't indulge in indiscretions, I would dump his sorry rear-end.

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