Do you think his small d**k made him back off?

Ummm' date=' no, he was really into how attractive I was (he stated so) and my slim, athletic size 4 figure. I know it's not that. [/quote']

It's really interesting. I know it is easier to dish advice than to take it, but since you are such a "Rules Girl" and all about "He's Just Not That Into You" and that is the inspiration of your posts to all the other women on this site, what's the question here for you?

Don't you have all the answers? Which is actually the same answer each time in your case, "he's just not that into you".

Your situation is a heck of a lot of a clearer read here, than a lot of the other females situations on this board who you always bash.

You slept with this guy, and he didn't call you back. That's all he wanted apparently.

You sound really inexperienced (sorry, but true).

Here's a lesson for you... I guy tends to dish out a lot of compliments to you when he is trying to get into your pants, and when he is screwing you. Imagine that!

Just because he told you that you were really hot, attractive, tight, whatever before & during your sex session, does not mean he is interested in you anything but physically.

They all slather on the compliments during a sexual encounter.

So you are hot, that's great. I happen to think I am pretty hot too & hear it a lot. That is going to make things even worse for you for men trying to get you in the sack just to bone you.

It does NOT mean, that they are going to want to make you their girlfriend!

Guys don't just toss ugly or fat girls out after sex, they toss beautiful ones aside just the same!

I really believe you need to realize this soon, because I get this vibe from you, that you think you really have it going on in the looks & vagina department, therefore every man you have an experience with is going to fall in love with you.

If you are in fact really that hot, you are going to have to be twice as careful that you don't get used & abused up a ton, cause you will have plenty of opportunity.

Men need to fall in love with you for who you are, not just your looks.

You're reading way too much into it. It was just the ole 'why didn't he call' thing.

A size 10 is NOT thin, I'm sorry, it's not. It never will be.

It's really interesting. I know it is easier to dish advice than to take it, but since you are such a "Rules Girl" and all about "He's Just Not That Into You" and that is the inspiration of your posts to all the other women on this site, what's the question here for you?

Don't you have all the answers? Which is actually the same answer each time in your case, "he's just not that into you".

Your situation is a heck of a lot of a clearer read here, than a lot of the other females situations on this board who you always bash.

You slept with this guy, and he didn't call you back. That's all he wanted apparently.

You sound really inexperienced (sorry, but true).

Here's a lesson for you... I guy tends to dish out a lot of compliments to you when he is trying to get into your pants, and when he is screwing you. Imagine that!

Just because he told you that you were really hot, attractive, tight, whatever before & during your sex session, does not mean he is interested in you anything but physically.

They all slather on the compliments during a sexual encounter.

So you are hot, that's great. I happen to think I am pretty hot too & hear it a lot. That is going to make things even worse for you for men trying to get you in the sack just to bone you.

It does NOT mean, that they are going to want to make you their girlfriend!

Guys don't just toss ugly or fat girls out after sex, they toss beautiful ones aside just the same!

I really believe you need to realize this soon, because I get this vibe from you, that you think you really have it going on in the looks & vagina department, therefore every man you have an experience with is going to fall in love with you.

If you are in fact really that hot, you are going to have to be twice as careful that you don't get used & abused up a ton, cause you will have plenty of opportunity.

Men need to fall in love with you for who you are, not just your looks.

Little Shy, I really was asking if guys who have small dicks might feel a bit insecure about it, that is the point of this whole thread. I mean, it can't be easy for a guy with a three inch dick that feels like a slender regular Tampax going in when he is interested in a woman and sex begins. I wanted to be sensitive to that topic and show that I am not superficial and judge men on this and they shouldn't be uptight if they have small dicks. Because women aren't going to stop liking them because of this.

It's really interesting. I know it is easier to dish advice than to take it, but since you are such a "Rules Girl" and all about "He's Just Not That Into You" and that is the inspiration of your posts to all the other women on this site, what's the question here for you?

Don't you have all the answers? Which is actually the same answer each time in your case, "he's just not that into you".

Your situation is a heck of a lot of a clearer read here, than a lot of the other females situations on this board who you always bash.

You slept with this guy, and he didn't call you back. That's all he wanted apparently.

You sound really inexperienced (sorry, but true).

Here's a lesson for you... I guy tends to dish out a lot of compliments to you when he is trying to get into your pants, and when he is screwing you. Imagine that!

Just because he told you that you were really hot, attractive, tight, whatever before & during your sex session, does not mean he is interested in you anything but physically.

They all slather on the compliments during a sexual encounter.

So you are hot, that's great. I happen to think I am pretty hot too & hear it a lot. That is going to make things even worse for you for men trying to get you in the sack just to bone you.

It does NOT mean, that they are going to want to make you their girlfriend!

Guys don't just toss ugly or fat girls out after sex, they toss beautiful ones aside just the same!

I really believe you need to realize this soon, because I get this vibe from you, that you think you really have it going on in the looks & vagina department, therefore every man you have an experience with is going to fall in love with you.

If you are in fact really that hot, you are going to have to be twice as careful that you don't get used & abused up a ton, cause you will have plenty of opportunity.

Men need to fall in love with you for who you are, not just your looks.

... had not had sex since then. Since I lived so close' date=' I offered to go back and show him my 'paper.'[/quote']

 

You have papers that verify when you have sex? lol

 

Hon - if you believe every guy you meet who tells you he's clean, you're going to wind up with some VERY nasty diseases. Always, always protect yourself! You've known him for two weeks. Guys will say a lot of things in order to bang you. Please don't be so naive.

 

Maybe he thought the sex was awful, maybe he thought you smelled, were too tight, too wet, too dry, too animated, too boring, maybe this, maybe that. Thing is - you'll never know.

 

You just sound terribly young and like someone who buys every guy line that they throw out there. Time to toughen up a bit girlie, and realize guy lines are just that - designed with an agenda. He told you what he sensed you needed to hear to bed you (it all worked), and now he is done.

 

Hopefully you'll learn from this one...

No, he really loved my perfume. So it wasn't the smell. But the sex was bad because he wasn't doing anything. He offered a condom but he is a teacher like I am so I was confident in believing him.

No, I have paper from the doctor which verifies I am 100% STD free, including not an HPV carrier (which is rare.)

You have papers that verify when you have sex? lol

 

Hon - if you believe every guy you meet who tells you he's clean, you're going to wind up with some VERY nasty diseases. Always, always protect yourself! You've known him for two weeks. Guys will say a lot of things in order to bang you. Please don't be so naive.

 

Maybe he thought the sex was awful, maybe he thought you smelled, were too tight, too wet, too dry, too animated, too boring, maybe this, maybe that. Thing is - you'll never know.

 

You just sound terribly young and like someone who buys every guy line that they throw out there. Time to toughen up a bit girlie, and realize guy lines are just that - designed with an agenda. He told you what he sensed you needed to hear to bed you (it all worked), and now he is done.

 

Hopefully you'll learn from this one...

I'm way too lazy and tired right now to type, so I'm just gonna piggy back on the following:

Eh, this may sound harsh, but just because a guy wants to have sex with you doesn't mean that he wants to have a relationship with you. Perhaps his goal was accomplished. End of game.

Yup.

I doubt it's the size of his dick, since he's probably known for longer then you have that he is on the small side of the scale.

 

Move on. I don't see how trying to figure out what's wrong with him is going to help you.

Right.

The more I read, I'm beginning to think it wasn't his ego that caused him to back out, but hers.

Hallelujah!

You had unprotected sex with someone that you've known for two weeks? Yeesh. I think why he hasn't called you back should be the least of your worries, hon. Have ya heard of STD's?

 

For all you know, he considers you trashy for having bareback sex with a (relative) stranger, and has backed off from you for that reason alone, as he wouldn't pursue a relationship with a girl who does that (er, if I was a guy, I wouldn't either, as I would assume you do that with EVERY guy - eww). Or, it could be that you're not as great in bed as you may think you are. Or, that you are not as tight as you think you are (guys lie to girls about that much as women tell men they have big dicks or they are the best in bed when they don't or aren't). lol I'm not saying that you're NOT a hot lay, but... point is, don't be so quick to throw it all on him. There are plenty of good reasons why he doesn't want to see you again, and none of them have to do with his cashew-sized dick.

Praise be to Jilly B!

DA - a guy's words mean NOTHING if they're not backed up by actions. Don't believe everything you're told.

DA - a guy's words mean NOTHING if they're not backed up by actions. Don't believe everything you're told.

Yeah I only had dated him for 2 weeks, I understand this. I was really delving into the possibility that he could have been embarrassed about his small dick, that's really what this is about. I wasn't really that into him emotionally yet, just trying him out.

So you and Jilly Bean, I know you have both been burnt quite a bit by guys (i searched your thread histories) and you love it when another woman gets on here and had a guy who stopped calling and love to be the Miss Know It Alls, but really I was looking at the possibility that it could have been his small penis and how much impact that it could have. The men's insights on here were quite understanding and helpful, and a few of the women. The other women were just here to bash because they've been dumped so much.

You're reading way too much into it. It was just the ole 'why didn't he call' thing.

A size 10 is NOT thin, I'm sorry, it's not. It never will be.

Who is a size 10, and where did that come from? Did you miss quote someone else? Did your body size factor anywhere into this discussion besides you reporting it as a justification on how good looking you are?

And what do you mean I am reading into this way too much?

You are the one searching high & low for the answers as to why this guy did not call you back.

I have offered a simple solution, he unfortunately used you for sex. Not much reading into things here.

Leave this poor guy alone regarding his penis size.

You say that you are not shallow, and would be able to see beyond it because you liked him, yet when he dosent respond positively to you (not calling you after sex) you are all about discussing his penis size, saying his small member is the reason he never called you back?

One male poster mentioned that if he was THAT insecure about it, he wouldn't have had the nerve to try & lay a hot chick with it.

Who knows? I have been with men with small penises, and it didn't seem to effect their on going pursuit of me, before or after sex, that is my experience.

With time you will realize, that there seems to be no rhyme or reason as to why a guy will stop calling you.

It is not simply an equation of how hot you are affecting what men will want from you. As I stated before, it may be even more challenging for you because a lot of guys may just want to score with you, and that is it.

Every situation is different.

Example, you cut down my situation, saying my current guy is creep, due to his past decisions sexually & that he will never want to engage in a monogamous relationship. Well, now he does, I don't know if you followed through on my thread that you advised on several times.

Hear you were dating what would appear to be a great, healthy, clean cut guy with all his ducks in a row, from what you describe...did you say Softball coach & PE teacher? Yet, he took you for a short ride all the same.

The sooner you can learn to not judge everything & everyone, including yourself, by outward appearances only, the better your chances of learning more about people, and not getting hurt.

Some of the most hurtful men I have been involved with in my life were the ones who I would have been most proud to bring home to my parents.

little shy, I wasn't even sure if I wanted a relationship. I am also a teacher and 'have my ducks in a row.' I was simply wondering a question. That's all.

No, his penis was really small. I know the difference between a large, medium, and small penis.

I also know that I am pretty tight. Otherwise, why would guys who sleep with me tell me "You're really tight! I love it!" I have been in longterm relationships lasting years so I do know this, and I know they all enjoyed the sex.

Just because you have a small one, Neanderthal, doesn't mean my vagina is big. I already know it's tight. Actually one guy said I was too tight.

All guys will TELL you what you want to hear in order to drop a load in you.

Do these sound familiar:

"I promise not to cvm in your mouth."

"I love My big fat greek wedding."

"No you don't look fat in those pants. (It's the mushroom waist that bulges out that makes you look fat)"

"You're so tight!" (though I have to close my eyes and think of my favorite porn slvt getting double penetrated in order to work up enough speed to finally bust this nut).

And my favorite:

"I'll promise to lift the lid on the toilet so you don't sit in my dried up, crusty piss."

Ever heard any of these? I thought so.

And mine is actually so small the Hubble telescope can't find it. But I've never, EVER, had to tell a woman some lame ass bull***** in order for her to have the ultimate desire to please me.

Never.

You are the one searching high & low for the answers as to why this guy did not call you back.

I have offered a simple solution, he unfortunately used you for sex. Not much reading into things here.

Leave this poor guy alone regarding his penis size.

You say that you are not shallow, and would be able to see beyond it because you liked him, yet when he doesn't respond positively to you (not calling you after sex) you are all about discussing his penis size, saying his small member is the reason he never called you back?

One male poster mentioned that if he was THAT insecure about it, he wouldn't have had the nerve to try & lay a hot chick with it.

Who knows? I have been with men with small penises, and it didn't seem to effect their on going pursuit of me, before or after sex, that is my experience.

Again, I agree.

DA - you're really reaching here. He wasn't interested for whatever reason, but I seriously doubt it had anything to do with his c*ck size.

Hey, ladies (SG, Jilly B., and LITTLE SHY), Tony T. at least could give some mature perspective without bashing. Thanks, Tony T., you rock!

How are we supposed to know? We don't know this guy. If you gave him any indication that his dick was too small for you, you can bet you'll never hear from him again. However, if your attitude was positive and your last parting was mature and mannerly you will surely hear from him unless he is a player.

 

He wouldn't have gone to bed with you in the first place if he thought his small penis would hamper his success with you. If you don't hear from him, it's more likely he just doesn't want a relationship with you...or he may very well fear that at some point his small penis will play a roll in the demise of any relationship he could create with you.

YOUR RECENT EX WHO YOU STILL CAN'T GET OVER USED YOU FOR SEX, TOO, STAR GAZER.

Again, I agree.

 

DA - you're really reaching here. He wasn't interested for whatever reason, but I seriously doubt it had anything to do with his c*ck size.

I personally think he just got what he wanted. He had the chance to set up plans with you again when you talked to him outside. If he was really that conscious of his penis size, I doubt he'd rush into having sex so soon.

As far as the STD's - things DO happen - and it was stated a bit harsh - but you can't take a person's word for everything. Also the standard STD testing does NOT test for everything. There are some tests you have to specifically ask for (example, HSV - which wont show up in blood work for 2-4 months after exposure) so you should really be more careful! I'm not coming down on you - don't get me wrong - just be safe!

Yeah, he only had a half an hour though. He did check me out up and down though and stop to chat, he didn't have to do that, could've just said hi and rushed off to his place.

I personally think he just got what he wanted. He had the chance to set up plans with you again when you talked to him outside. If he was really that conscious of his penis size, I doubt he'd rush into having sex so soon.

 

As far as the STD's - things DO happen - and it was stated a bit harsh - but you can't take a person's word for everything. Also the standard STD testing does NOT test for everything. There are some tests you have to specifically ask for (example, HSV - which wont show up in blood work for 2-4 months after exposure) so you should really be more careful! I'm not coming down on you - don't get me wrong - just be safe!

Guys, I am NOT here for a lecture on STDs, Ok? I am a big girl, I know all about that. do NOT lecture me about that. I have lived 40 years to tell you that I KNOW how to take care of myself that way. I have made it THIS long without getting any STDs, stop lecturing.

I understand about STD's' date=' he's a middle school PE/Health teacher, and he teaches sex ed. to his students so he gets it, too.[/quote']

 

I know this guy who teeaches middle school PE. I wonder what state this is in. He seems to have small penis syndrome or something is off about him.

 

 

I do know I'm pretty tight, though. My gynecologist will even verify this, she has said so, also. I am simply giving honest details here.

 

I got a better idea. Rather than have your gynecologist verify it, I houuld verfy it as I probably have even more experience inspecting vaginas. Only problem is most girls are pretty tight with me . I'm kidding.

I know this guy who teeaches middle school PE. I wonder what state this is in. He seems to have small penis syndrome or something is off about him.

 

 

 

 

I got a better idea. Rather than have your gynecologist verify it, I houuld verfy it as I probably have even more experience inspecting vaginas. Only problem is most girls are pretty tight with me . I'm kidding.

Really? I am in Oregon.

Yeah but I really think there is not much difference with women, not like there is an obvious difference in penis size.

But yeah, I'll give you a whirl. Thanks for not bashing and keeping it light, that's all I wanted.

Guys don't just toss ugly or fat girls out after sex, they toss beautiful ones aside just the same!

You are incorrect.

I really believe you need to realize this soon, because I get this vibe from you, that you think you really have it going on in the looks & vagina department, therefore every man you have an experience with is going to fall in love with you.

If you are in fact really that hot, you are going to have to be twice as careful that you don't get used & abused up a ton, cause you will have plenty of opportunity.

Men need to fall in love with you for who you are, not just your looks.

You advice isn't too good plus it seems kind of caty. But I like catfights . However, I'm a little surprised a supposedly good looking girl would want a 5'5 guy with a 2 inch peter. Btw, ad devil, I re-read one of your posts and my friend is like me over 6'1, so it couldn't have been him.

Thanks, Fonz, you're really helping me to laugh through this. When I first met the guy (it was a blind date setup, we teach in the same district at different middle schools) I was a bit disappointed at his height but he did have a pretty good personality on our first couple of dates.

You are incorrect.

 

 

 

You advice isn't too good plus it seems kind of caty. But I like catfights . However, I'm a little surprised a supposedly good looking girl would want a 5'5 guy with a 2 inch peter. Btw, ad devil, I re-read one of your posts and my friend is like me over 6'1, so it couldn't have been him.

I am actually starting to think that he was probably intimidated by me and thought I would dump him and he was just beating me to the punch to save his ego. Thanks, Fonz.

You are incorrect.

 

 

 

You advice isn't too good plus it seems kind of caty. But I like catfights . However, I'm a little surprised a supposedly good looking girl would want a 5'5 guy with a 2 inch peter. Btw, ad devil, I re-read one of your posts and my friend is like me over 6'1, so it couldn't have been him.

Originally Posted by Little Shy

Guys don't just toss ugly or fat girls out after sex, they toss beautiful ones aside just the same!

 

You are incorrect.

 

 

 

Many girls no matter how pretty or wonderful they may be can experience getting tossed just the same. If a guy just wants to score - he'll do just that regardless.

I personally think he just got what he wanted. He had the chance to set up plans with you again when you talked to him outside. If he was really that conscious of his penis size, I doubt he'd rush into having sex so soon.

 

I'm starting to realize that according to most of women here the answer to everything a guy does or doesn't do is because he just wanted sex. And the solution to everything is to not have sex with a guy. Why don't you guys take that solution to it's ultimate conclusion and just become lesbians? I'm pretty sure a guy with a penis problem will still try to have sex and if he doesn't impress he will be embarassed and possibly avoid the girl. I refer you back to my previous post where even I had whiskey dick one time.

Although that might be why he stopped contacting the OP, at this point it doesn't matter because if was embarassed he's most likely lost interest in her due to feeling inadequate. Or maybe he just wasn't that into you after hving sex. Take your pic. But like I said before had the OP waited longer, a week, month or whatever, the same outcome probably would've happened and it would've only made things worse.

The wording of your title sounds like you are trying to get in a dig at him by insulting the size of his manhood. It doesn't really seem like you sincerely want to know how he felt, so much as you want affirmation that he failed to call back because of his own "shortcomings" as opposed to yours. Were you miffed that he didn't call you back?

Many girls no matter how pretty or wonderful they may be can experience getting tossed just the same. If a guy just wants to score - he'll do just that regardless.

Just like not every guy is looking to just score, not every girl is looking to get into a LTR. It cuts both ways. What's your point? but if a girl's attractive and he's attracted to her it's much less likely he's not going to want score with her again and again.