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Old 4th August 2018, 10:51 AM   #31
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Its going to get worst as he ages.

The other thought I have is why is he having all these comments of women when he can't even deliver to his wife without medical help? I don't understand... Had you not brought up his ED I would have thought he had a raging libido.
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Old 4th August 2018, 12:56 PM   #32
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Maybe because he has ED, he is overcompensating and wanting you and others to see him as a sexual being. He's probably even worse around his buddies. It's kind of unfair because like you said, he has ED, so he can't take it at ALL, but he can dish it out. I'm sure it really makes him feel awful that he's got ED.

Have you ever tried just totally ignoring his lurid comments and changing the subject. Maybe shock value is all he feels he has left for you. I don't know what to tell you about giving it back to him like the firemen. Not sure if that may just keep him going at it or if it might really make him feel bad, but since you don't like that sort of lurid joking stuff, I doubt you enjoy saying it.

Sometimes changing the way you react will change how a person comes at you. I mean, he's getting something out of it. Figure out what that is.
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