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joystickd Established Member

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To the women here we live in the real world. In the real world not all men

1. Cheat on partners

2. Choose porn over meeting women

3. Are not afraid of commitment

4. Are looking for models

5. Want to be your surrogate boyfriend

6. Are looking for sex

 

So please woman up and join everyone else in the real world and stop living in your reality. Its annoying to see the attacks on men but when a man keeps it real its wrong or like in my case I got called abusive on here because I call it like I see it. Quit being a Debbie Downer its not helping your cause at all.

 

 

To the men

1. Not all women are golddiggers

2. Women get rejected too

3. Women are not that hard to talk to. Just walk up to one say hi. Hell shake her hand.

4. BE A MAN! Quit being some whiny baby because some woman rejected you or put you in the friend zone

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You devote a paragraph telling us what we do wrong after your little list and have no paragraph for the men.

 

Typical.

Be a man says a lot for the guys that have trouble with women

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To the women here we live in the real world. In the real world not all men

1. Cheat on partners

2. Choose porn over meeting women

3. Are not afraid of commitment

4. Are looking for models

5. Want to be your surrogate boyfriend

6. Are looking for sex

 

So please woman up and join everyone else in the real world and stop living in your reality. Its annoying to see the attacks on men but when a man keeps it real its wrong or like in my case I got called abusive on here because I call it like I see it. Quit being a Debbie Downer its not helping your cause at all.

 

Yep, not all men.... Just all the single ones I know.

 

Is it possible that you just have a different perspective, but that it doesn't necessarily mean your "real world" is any more truthful than how the women who believes those tenants view it?

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Yep, not all men.... Just all the single ones I know.

 

Is it possible that you just have a different perspective, but that it doesn't necessarily mean your "real world" is any more truthful than how the women who believes those tenants view it?

NO! That's the real world everybody is different so stop putting men in the same category so you can avoid dealing with your negativity.

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NO! That's the real world everybody is different so stop putting men in the same category so you can avoid dealing with your negativity.

 

How is saying "not all men, just the single ones I know" putting ALL men in the same category? Like I said in the other thread, I do believe some guys want commitment and relationships... but then they already have them, or they require the "perfect" girl in order to commit. I don't see how it's negative... just realistic. Aren't men on this forum always claiming that women aren't realistic about their choices?

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As a man, I am looking for sex, will cheat on all my partners, with models, but then dump those models for porn because I am afraid of commitment.

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To the women here we live in the real world. In the real world not all men

 

3. Are not afraid of commitment

 

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That's what I thought! :laugh: (just kidding, grammar glitches happen)

 

Here's the thing:

 

I find the argument of "not all men" to be kind of insulting to women and we hear it ALL THE FREAKING TIME.

 

If you know five guys personally that are not heavily afflicted with these issues, then please do womankind a favor and hook up some nice girls with them.

 

Vice versa for the guys.

 

As well, most of us have to realize that the opposite sex DOES HAVE FEELINGS AND MOST OFTEN COMPASSION AND UNDERSTANDING. most often.

 

When we don't or have caught the brunt side of things, we pop onto loveshack.

 

I think it hurts both men and women to be accused of dishonesty because of their take on things. It also hurts to rip down a whole gender based on experiences with some BUT ALSO when you (general you) keep repeating a bloody bizarre pattern of interacting with the opposite sex and it doesn't work out how you think it should. Examine thyself first!

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As a man, I am looking for sex, will cheat on all my partners, with models, but then dump those models for porn because I am afraid of commitment.

 

Wow!? Were you Christie Brinkley's last husband?

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You're doing what you accuse us women of...

No I am not. I said not all.

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How is saying "not all men, just the single ones I know" putting ALL men in the same category? Like I said in the other thread, I do believe some guys want commitment and relationships... but then they already have them, or they require the "perfect" girl in order to commit. I don't see how it's negative... just realistic. Aren't men on this forum always claiming that women aren't realistic about their choices?

some are the thing is you let BS affect you. so what if someone YOU know doesn't want you. someone out there does and you are hindering yourself from finding someone with your "realistic" attitude.

 

I don't. I really could give a sh*t how realistic a woman's choices are. Its her choice not mine

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How is saying "not all men, just the single ones I know" putting ALL men in the same category? Like I said in the other thread, I do believe some guys want commitment and relationships... but then they already have them, or they require the "perfect" girl in order to commit. I don't see how it's negative... just realistic. Aren't men on this forum always claiming that women aren't realistic about their choices?

 

 

Ugh.

 

It sounds like your description of the "perfect" girl is pretty much, "Anyone who isn't me or my friends." Just because a guy doesn't want to date you doesn't mean that he wants perfection. It just means he doesn't want you.

 

It's funny to hear you complain in such a way, because there is literally a LEGION of men who complain in the same exact way about women. "They set their standards ridiculously high. They only want men who are 6'5" with a Ferrari."

 

I'll tell you the same thing I tell the men....It's not that they want perfection. They just don't want you. Live with it. It doesn't mean that the guy is evil. It doesn't mean that the opposite sex is evil. It just means that your particular relationship(s) didn't work out. Breakups happen every day.

 

You know how you'll realize you're in a great relationship? It won't end. Other than that, it's just a part of life. The fact that a man will date you does not mean that he will enter into a lifelong contract with you.

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She said "so many" men. Not only does it not say "all", but it is true, and also matches what you men say on here. How about you look at all of the bitter men instead?

 

Lol! I could name off bitter women on here but I won't because of what happened last time. Its more than just about saying all men. I get tired of the incendiary comments the women make on here, the assumptions, and the lack of accountability on their part about failed situations. At least the men want to figure what can they do to improve themselves to women its about blaming men.

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LOL men complaining about women, making threads justifying their mistrust in women, saying women are golddiggers, etc is trying to improve themselves?

 

It's no wonder why you miserable men can't get a woman to save your sexually frustrated lives.

 

Lol! I'm far from being miserable. The only thing that is a little frustrating is that I'm always the other man. Its cool though those women take all their sexual frustration out on me.

 

I included that in this thread with the all important be a man. Shows what you are focused on.

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To everyone see what happens when these women get the it straight with no chaser. They have a fit! I'm out of here. I got music to make and other sh*t I got to do. Have fun being negative ladies! :)

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I highly doubt, being a guy complaining about women on a forum, that you get any piece of the drawls.

 

I'm a bit skeptical too :laugh:

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I'm with you, joystickd. Great thread. Unfortunately, the ones who need to be taking your original post to heart are mostly numbskulls.

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I'm a bit skeptical too :laugh:

 

Lol if only you knew. Later!

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Why is this condescending, ******* bully allowed to post? He must **** the moderator because there is no way, with his bad attitude and foul mouth, that he is still allowed to post.

 

I've reported him many times and yet he is STILL here.

 

WHY?

 

Because I am your father.

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Lol if only you knew. Later!

 

Wow you finished making that music pretty fast. Now its later. Bet your reading this now. Lighten up, your panties get twisted way too easily.

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I am and am not surprised by how heated this thread became.

 

I do think that part of the perceptions of the other gender get softly worn away over time and as one grows more into adulthood.

 

I have to go to a womans group every week for victims of domestic violence ( oh jeez, it is nowhere near as bad as it sounds). I have to say that I personally think a lot of them had very low opinions of men to start with and then when they met a man that exceeded these expectations even slightly, they got with him. It became a self-fulfilling prophecy.

 

If you believe that women are gold-digging sluts, guess what you will end up with? Because to you gold-digging sluts ate representative of femininity.

 

I though men didn't really hurt when women left them. I thought that many of them were simply narcissistic and sexually doglike.

 

Guess what I got?

 

Now as I get older and have more experience in dealing with shame and other issues, I can see that my perception of men was incredibly unhealthy and if I had expected far better for myself I wouldn't have missed the red flags in the beginning and been blinded by emotion. Although I couldn't have consciously predicted things would be SO sour.

 

Now my husband and I can see each other better: he is NOT just like my abusive father and I am NOT like his abusive, emotionally -controlling mother (my god, at all!).

 

Look at who your closest male and female role models are. Are all men or women like them?

 

I often find that many folks have the same view on God even that they do about their fathers.

 

My friend that had no Dad growing up: there is no God

My husband who had a Dad that was there for a short time and left: I don't think there is a loving God. Maybe we were just something he made and that he thought was a mistake and just left.

Me, who's father favored others and gave me very little attention, except to shame or abuse me: God doesn't seem to love me as much as his other children, there must be something really wrong with me. (I don't believe this anymore).

 

Just some thoughts....

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I'm with you, joystickd. Great thread. Unfortunately, the ones who need to be taking your original post to heart are mostly numbskulls.

 

I did reread my first post and I am worried it came across wrong.

 

I agree with Johan.

 

In fact some of the hatred thrown at OP is shocking. And that particular poster should be banned. (if I were a moderator that is).

 

I guess when you call out the negative folk on LS with gender issues, you Get what you ask for. Jeez.

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All he was trying to do was break up the Self-Pity Party.

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Why is this condescending, ******* bully allowed to post? He must **** the moderator because there is no way, with his bad attitude and foul mouth, that he is still allowed to post.

 

I've reported him many times and yet he is STILL here.

 

WHY?

 

Supporting member? The adorable avatars? BTW, teddy bear was my favorite:bunny::laugh:

Mantis Toboggan Established Member

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Probably women that gives it up to everyone. This is why I don't date men of color. They think they're the man for no reason

 

It's weird that you come down from the high horse to report others to the moderator.....and then insult someone's skin color.

 

You do see that, right?

 

If you're going to act holier than thou...then be holy.

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