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Old 16th December 2017, 4:25 PM   #31
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What will it take for you to wake up...

Originally Posted by baro View Post
I am working on myself...

She has shown signs by moving out and telling him that she wants to be with me and has spent time with me. She feels really guilty about what happened and what she did to me.

That guilt is what seems to be eating her up and there is nothing I can do about that. What is the correct action to take?

stating facts for what I have seen

Before she told me this whole situation, we were talking about our relationship and one thing she pointed out was "she wanted me to make her fall in love with me again" so we started on some adventures together and she missed me but after she moved she was sad
What will it take for you to wake up...

She was sleeping with him because she wanted to. He was better than you are, and she did not love you anyway.

You are being delusional. She wants you to make her fall in love again???

How about she makes you love her, oh you are so foolish you still love her. OK then, what about she helps you heal from the pain she has caused you. What about she helps you to trust her again, how about she proves herself to you...

OH, none of that matters because she loves you so much she was banging her room mate while dating you.

Please kick her to the curb and find a new GF.

And why after 8 years are you guys not living together at the very least if not married?

Who dates for 8 years??? I'll bet she has a host of BF's that she bangs when your not around.

Please grow up and find a new woman. Staying with her will lead to nothing but pain for you...
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