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Old 19th January 2017, 12:18 PM   #16
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Originally Posted by basil67 View Post
I'm trying to work out why you love this asshat.
Couldn't agree more.

HopefullyLove, I can't figure out why you want to marry him.

And I can figure out why you'd want to marry someone like him.

If "handsome" and "successful" are your two main criteria, you're going to be kissing a lot of frogs before you find a prince...

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"Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for." - Epicurus
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Old 19th January 2017, 9:58 PM   #17
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I think she wants to marry him because she has made an "investment" of her time with him. Even if he proposed to OP today and married her it would still be a dysfunctional relationship.

Marriage is not gonna make this a good relationship. Its not what he wants and I think its the time together that makes the idea of marriage a good idea.

Its not. Marriage is not the answer to your problem. Please let it go.
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